hey mommies I really need your support and encouragement. my unborn daughters dad just left me out of nowhere to weeks ago. he took all his things and wouldn't answer my calls and text. yesterday I received a call from the girl he's with. she saw my text and started asking who I was. shes telling me he's been with her for two months and he loves her body and so many hurtful things. I can't eat, sleep, I cry uncontrollably. it hurts so much. I know I can never be with him again but how can someone do something so hurtful and why would he let her call and text me saying things like that to me? I've been with him for almost three years and now I'm 8 months pregnant with his daughter.
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@ann_kzz, Pray about it, you should not let him stress you out and get you down like that. You need to eat your child is important. Eat and forget what he did. Stressing isn't good!
I just dealt with this 3months ago... and my daughter is due in 2weeks.
YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS.!!!! allow yourself to grieve.. BUT Don't stay there.. when people walk out of your life let them!!! it just means there is something better on the way.... he WILL regret what he did and try and come back.... but be strong enough to see that you deserve better and so does your daughter and son.
You will be an incredible mom.. Stay encouraged and focus on YOU right now... you have to get up!! you can't give up now... your daughter needs you and so does your son!!! You CAN get through this... and you will!! @ann_kzz
I appreciate yalls words all this I already know but I want to hear them from someone else. @karnawest I'm a stay at home mom he left me with an apartment and bills and I have no job and I can't get one 8 months pregnant. it hurts knowing she was worth enough to leave me like this and then let her rub it in my face.
@aimster6, it was hard not texting her back. she told me such ugly and personal things about them i wish i never knew. I'm trying not to call or text him either. but it hurts so bad.
Wow... It dumbfounds me how easy men have it... If they want out of responsibilities they just leave... I would respond to her and say if she wants a boy who abandons his wife and kids then she can have him and that I need a man who takes care of his responsibilities. I am so sorry to hear this happening to you and your children. Lord I would destroy my husband if he did that to me... But, you are not alone on here and you have everyone's support
sweety you just gotta take care of your baby the pain will ease up after time n in a few weeks it'll be you and that sweet little girl againsr the world n that guy will be the faintest of memories. i know it hurts right now, but it will get better. do you have any girl friends or family that can take you too get pedicures or chocolate? those are the best band aids i swear
smh don't let that get u down just do u cause I don't have a father in my life but my mom is my dad and mom and my sperm donater did not even sign my birth certificate I know will make it and find someone better soon just have faith
I wouldn't respond to her as hard as thAt may be, and show them they can't get to you,even though it is hurtful ! Pray for wisdom from God to do the right thing,stay strong,and when he realizes what he has done he will be sorry
just know ur not alone!! know u or a great mom and don't need him especially if he's letting this woman call u!! if u need to chat or vent I'm here!! Chin up and smile on!! 😊🙋
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
@ann_kzz, A real man wouldn't walk out on his family no matter what. And to leave you with no money and with the bills that is so wrong and he knows it smh. Stay strong