Vent after I had my first child my husband said I can be a stay at home mom which I did for over a…

Vent after I had my first child my husband said I can be a stay at home mom which I did for over a year but once my son hit 1 years old I went back to work why you ask cause I missed talking to adults and having my own money since I was laid off on May 15 I have been a stay at home again I love my kids but can we have a day that they don't fight with each other or that they will actually eat the food I put in front of them ( I mean my 4 year old my 9 year old inhales all that I feed him) and I want one day that I don't get yelled at by a 4 year old please thank you end vent