im having issues with emails i found my bf sent to people on Craigslist when we where together just two months...nothing…
im having issues with emails i found my bf sent to people on Craigslist when we where together just two months...nothing ever came of them and i deleted everything...i know he wouldn't cheat but i need help getting over this..i have trust issues already..deleting the emails helped somewhat..but do i forgive and forget? we are humans we make mistakes and he's apologized...btw i found these emails on accident and they where in the trash folder..
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
Мама сына-младенца
what did the email say
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
asking for pics people posted ads on Craigslist...one was for sex too...ive had issues with this in the past ...
Karinaaaa·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
It's not healthy to be with a guy that can have sex with someone they meet off craigslist.
Camilla·
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@karina22, come on! You seriously think she doesn't know that? That's why she's posting and is upset about it!
Shit's easier said than done... keep your head up and try to stay strong and know your worth. Your in my thoughts girl. xo
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@babeeberklee lol thanks girl!♡
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@karina22 no one is perfect ive done many imperfect things i was just looking for encouraging words for my own demons in my head...can't give up on a relationship bc someone makes mistakes we have a newborn together but thats all ☺
Camilla·
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@overthemoon, Of course doll! 💕👌
Karinaaaa·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
I know I'm sorry I didn't mean to state the obvious but sometimes people need to hear it. But also it was a two months together, and the feelings U have now we're t between U guys yet so it's forgivable. My man did very questionable things in the beggining too wich I had a hard time forgiving but it didn't repeat after bigger feelings developed so it got easier! Just as long as it's not happening now :)
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@karina22 no nothing that i know of now he says i can even go thru his phone if i wanted too i dont and we even share phone bill so i could easily see stuff. .i guess that just caught me off guard we are good now..well better since babys here lol but i still have trust issues in back of my mind. he's a good man who allows me to stay home with baby and he pays all bills im very lucky
missing118user·
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I had that problem... but he actually posted ads asking for sex :/ He did that in the beginning and his excuse was that we weren't. together. nothing came of them either and it really affected me for a while... but when I decided to let it go... he changed a lot... in a very good way, he apologized and said he'd never do anything to mess things up.. so far he hasn't. . I guess the thought of losing me took a toll on him lol. nonetheless. we both learned our lesson and have gotten passed it. that was like 2 years ago..
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mssjudyk thank you for your story! makes me feel better i guess men just wired so diff than us ladies. ..thats what i need help with letting go..our 1yr anniversary is next monday♡♡
Marlena·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@karina22 @babeeberklee @mssjudyk thank you for your input and advice. i was afraid to put this out there bc he is a great guy.💙 and it was awhile ago but this has made me feel a ton better getting it off my shoulders
missing118user·
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they are wired different, I'm sure u and I both wouldn't go off doing something like that.. specially. after a break up... All I did was get super super drunk and called him crying lol. We've had a lot of bumps in the road. And I feel everyone does, no relationship is perfect. You learn from your mistakes and try and move on. The best part is when they learn your worth and change in ways that makes you feel like you're the luckiest woman ever
missing118user·
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don't be afraid to get things off your chest. it makes it easier to move on. Just remember not everyone can be trusted. I vented too, but to the wrong person and it got back to him and he was VERY upset. it set us back a ton but we got over that too :)
Marlena·
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@mssjudyk yes i about vented to the wrong person...but instead i came here...so glad you guys came out stronger. i have high hopes for us thank you so much made me day brighter!☺
missing118user·
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I'm glad I could help :-D