I love my husband but I'm really tired of feeling like I'm a single parent in a two parent household.....
I'm tired of being the only one to cook and clean, because even the roommate doesn't bother to try, and screws up when she does, (can't even rinse a god damn dish after I freaking just told her they can't go in the dishwasher with stuff stuck to them!!!!)
not only am I the only one who does ALL the cooking and cleaning, including scrubbing things til my arms give out, using chemicals to clean things, etc.....I am a full time mommy to our son, I'm lucky if I get to shower for ten minutes without him right there. because he always wants me. news flash dad, he wouldn't be so damn mommy dependant if you helped more!!!!! I'm freaking tired of not sleeping comfortably, if at all, because you don't help me when I ask for help. sure, you help out, but you help me when I don't need any help vs when I'm in tears because I want and or need the freaking help!!!!! I'm absolutely done. 23 weeks pregnant and taking care of our 8.5 month old and tending to everyone else's needs....I'm done. see those dishes? yep they're gonna sit there, because I'm not doing them, oh y'all need clothes/towels? oops, I forgot to do the laundry...again, no big deal though, oh you're hungry? well, there's food, figure something out. I'm done being everyone's mom. I have ONE child outside of my womb, not three. and I'm not supposed to be a single parent. so step the hell up or gtfo of my way.
I have. it's exhausting. I get promises of more help, goes great for a few days then boom. done. every time. I try not to get to worked up over my hubby being as he works full time plus over time so I can stay home, but it doesn't always work.