I'm really upset and I don't know how to handle this. Yesterday and everyday I'm home with Jabari…

I'm really upset and I don't know how to handle this. Yesterday and everyday I'm home with Jabari alone and he's needy so if I don't have him he'll cry all the time to the point where I have to take him to the bathroom with me. Anyway , yesterday I had him all day and his father got home from work but everything I asked him to do he had a attitude with it ( like put on a diaper ) well last night his mom had him but gave him back to me and I gave him to his father well when his mom saw I gave him to his father she came to him and said why would she give him to you if you been working hard all day. Wtf man why don't I deserve a break ? I put my dreams on hold for my son and I'm a stay at home mom but because of that I don't deserve a break ? I'm so done.