I did just because it was my first and I knew I wanted a water birth so I studied it and did everything according to plan

I asked my doctor if it was worth writing everything out. She said that if we have good communication at our appointments then there isn't really a necessity. The only reason why she suggested writing something up, was just in case I went into labor and she wasn't there (she's going on vacation a few weeks before my due date), that way someone could fill in and know what my preferences were 😊

I did but everything I planned went the other way and nothing went right