So my boyfriend went from not wanting my sister is the delivery room and only our moms, to now not wanting anybody in the delivery room. It made me upset when he said my sister can't be in there and now it made me even more upset that he doesn't want our moms in there... I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm always being forced to pick 😒😔
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
helppp!! my mother in law wants to be in the delivery room but I want my mom and sister
sooo I plan to have my SO, mom, and grandmom in the delivery room with me.. and if they allow it.. my sister.. i dont want my SOs family to feel left out but thats how I want it.. i think theyd be understanding tho.. who do you guys plan on having in the room with you???
Is it wrong for me not to want my boyfriends mom in the room when I deliver my son?
Chante·
@rr082015, He sounds very childish, excuse my French. I wish I can have my mom and sister in the room with me. But I can't because all my family is back in Michigan while I'm in Texas with my fiance. Put your feet down, I am thankful for his for his family support. Don't let him do you like that it's mean!!
paige1354·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
you're going to want all the support you can get trust me. it's your choice mama
Mel·
Мама дочки-младенца
he needs to get over it. I'm sorry hun but put ur foot down on this. you are the one that needs all the support you can get.
Raquel Ramirez·
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Right?! He doesn't understand that though, he's so stubborn. I've tried telling him that and he always flips it on me and says I'm not being considerate of his feelings and it's his baby too so he should have a say. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place 😔😔😔😔
missing115user·
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when it comes to you giving birth thats your decision not his. you can have who ever you want because its your support team not his.
missing55user·
You're the one with your legs spread open pushing a baby out of your vagina, NOT him. Therefore this is 100% your decision.
masonaverysmommy·
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I feel like it should totally be up to you! your the one who should be comfortable and have the support you want.
Brenda·
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Your the one pregnant, your the one pushing out the baby I think it should be your decision who and who is not going to be there. My husband wanted his mom in there with my mom but I don't really feel comfortable with her looking at me down there so I told him no an he was ok with that. But now I don't really care so she's ganna be there
Jameka Martins·
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I think you're the one having the baby & who ever you feel most comfortable in the room with you should be there for you. I understand that he might feel as though it can be a special moment for the two of you. But in the end, you're the one pushing out that baby & if you feel most comfortable with your sister and mom in there: he should understand.
mickbaby·
He shouldn't have the final say in that. There should be some compromise considering you have carried the baby and are pushing him/her out!!