Raquel Ramirez
rr082015
Raquel Ramirez·Мама дочки (10 лет)

So my boyfriend went from not wanting my sister is the delivery room and only our moms, to now not wanting anybody in the delivery room. It made me upset when he said my sister can't be in there and now it made me even more upset that he doesn't want our moms in there... I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm always being forced to pick 😒😔

19.06.2015

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chantebrandon

@rr082015, He sounds very childish, excuse my French. I wish I can have my mom and sister in the room with me. But I can't because all my family is back in Michigan while I'm in Texas with my fiance. Put your feet down, I am thankful for his for his family support. Don't let him do you like that it's mean!!

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paige1354
paige1354·Мама троих детей

you're going to want all the support you can get trust me. it's your choice mama

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mdomke22
Mel·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

he needs to get over it. I'm sorry hun but put ur foot down on this. you are the one that needs all the support you can get.

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rr082015
Raquel Ramirez·Мама дочки (10 лет)

Right?! He doesn't understand that though, he's so stubborn. I've tried telling him that and he always flips it on me and says I'm not being considerate of his feelings and it's his baby too so he should have a say. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place 😔😔😔😔

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missing115user
missing115user·Мама сына (10 лет)

when it comes to you giving birth thats your decision not his. you can have who ever you want because its your support team not his.

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missing55user

You're the one with your legs spread open pushing a baby out of your vagina, NOT him. Therefore this is 100% your decision.

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masonaverysmommy
masonaverysmommy·Мама сына (10 лет)

I feel like it should totally be up to you! your the one who should be comfortable and have the support you want.

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ivettes_mommy
Brenda·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Your the one pregnant, your the one pushing out the baby I think it should be your decision who and who is not going to be there. My husband wanted his mom in there with my mom but I don't really feel comfortable with her looking at me down there so I told him no an he was ok with that. But now I don't really care so she's ganna be there

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14jmartins
Jameka Martins·Мама сына (10 лет)

I think you're the one having the baby & who ever you feel most comfortable in the room with you should be there for you. I understand that he might feel as though it can be a special moment for the two of you. But in the end, you're the one pushing out that baby & if you feel most comfortable with your sister and mom in there: he should understand.

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mickbaby

He shouldn't have the final say in that. There should be some compromise considering you have carried the baby and are pushing him/her out!!

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