so I finally left my babies father and my son is not even born yet!!!! so sad but I have to do what's right for us.... he was supposed to come over tonight to be with me and all the other nights until I have the baby and he decided that drinking is more important than being here with us!! 😤😤 and then when I call him to see where he is...he can barely talk he is so drunk 😡😡 I have had enough!! any other moms have to leave their child's father and how did it work out??
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✋me.. same as @septson my story is different. but none the less I stopped putting up with his BS and absence in this pregnancy. it sucks, but in the end no one will regret it but him!
It's been so hard on me, my story is a bit different but I am alone in this now and it is very emotional. But all I can say is keep reminding yourself that this is for the best. If you ever need to talk please message me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I wish....
There was a place all of us could bring our May babies to play with each other, so our babies could have some great friends, like we all have in this group :)))
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
@septson, ya well he likes to drink a lot and it really bothers me BC when he drinks he gets really nice and he so easy to talk to but the next day he doesn't remember anything he told me!!! when he is sober he is really irritable and rude!!!! so I don't wanna have to deal with him being drunk around my son and us arguing in front of him so I am going to put him on child support and just go from there @uhoh2015 good for you girl!! I am very proud of myself for finally stepping up to him its kind of sad but it has to he done