Ladies I need some advice. I've just found out (by DNA test) that the person I though was hArrisons dad, isn't. He was…

Does the potential dad want anything to do with him if he is proven to be the dad? If not then don't bother xxx

I have no idea because he keeps changing his mind but he's an alcoholic and I know that he would always put alcohol before harrison, his parents are disables and both alcoholics so they can't do very much for him either@zaralee71 xxx

Then I wouldn't bother hun. Would you really want someone like that in his life? plus, if he is proven to be his dad then he will have parental rights to him which may be a bad thing in the future. my son hasn't seen his dad for four year but because his dad has parental rights I can't legally get his last name changed to mine without his permission 😡 I'd play it safe if I was you xxx

Really? That's horrible! While I was pregnant he did say that if harrison was his then he could want him to have his last name & I didn't agree. My dads an alcoholic but he's getting so much better at being Able to control it. I wouldn't want my baby growing up around 4alcoholics xxx

@kathryn-elizabeth if I was you I would get the DNA test no matter how much it costs your little boy & every other child in the world deserves to know who their parents are. It's prob better to get it done now rather than when he's older he won't know what's happening now. & if it turns out the guy is the dad u never know he might step up & change his life around, & if he doesn't take responsibility then at least u have done the best for ur child, and ur son will always know who his real dad is! I was in a similar situation a few years back & I had 3 children to a guy. I would defo do it prove him wrong!

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I already know for a fact that he's the dad now and I'm sure he even knows it but he's just making an excuse so he doesn't have to get involved straight away @tori27 x

Noo I'm getting him registered today with my second name and father as unknown @tori27 x

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heyyy. Ye my son's dad is on the birth cirtificate, stupid move on my part because I knew he was a twat 😑 I have got his name changed to 'known as....' so he will be called by my surname at school and what not and then if he wants to change it legally when he is older he can,gives him a choice xxx

Oops sorry thought that message was for me not Zara haha, I need to learn to read properly haha & I'm just confused because I got told the day I got pregnant and I was with the lad who isn't the father which is strange so they've obviously got the dates wrong @tori27 x

Ah I would take that day with a pinch of salt hun, the day they said I fell pregnant with my oldest was the day I came off holiday so I knew that was wrong, I either caught a week before or after but don't forget,sperm can live in you for up to 7 days aswel xxx

The sperm must have stayed in me for 7days because I've worked out I got pregnant on the 18th but the last time I had sex before that was the 11th @zaralee71 xxx

That's probably what it was then hun. just think hard about what you wana do. I grew up not knowing my dad and I still don't know who he is and I don't feel like I missed out because I have a fantastic mum and step dad. not all children grow up thinking they missed out not knowing xxx