Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I can't really vent anywhere else. Tell me what your thoughts are. My step son gave me a Mother's Day gift he made at…

I can't really vent anywhere else. Tell me what your thoughts are. My step son gave me a Mother's Day gift he made at school. I find out today that his mother and grandmother are very upset about it. Grandmother texted my husband saying we owe step son's mother an apology. I sent this to his grandmother: I just wanted you to know that I just heard about a misunderstanding with a mother's day gift. That day Caid got in the car and gave it to me and said happy mothers day. He never mentioned giving it to his mom or asked for it back so he could. I spoke with him about it today. We decided that he would bring it to his mom. I am not apologizing for anything. Caidence is a little boy. I will never replace his mother nor do I want to. I know how important a birth mother is to a child. He cares about me and I am a parental figure to him and he loves me. I think he felt torn and doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make anyone mad. He just wants to make everyone happy. Instead of jumping to negative conclusions it's best to ask questions.

Well I asked my step son what he told his mom and I understand why she was so upset. He told her he wanted to give it to her but didn't tell her he gave it to me instead. So he pretty much withheld information due to not wanting to hurt mommy's feelings. So in turn this made me and my husband look horrible.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was…

Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄

So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter…

So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.

I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in…

I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in the bottle it’s nothing wrong with it at all. NOTHING , especially if his doctor already gave me the go ahead. My god, each one teach their own though. it’s 10 am where I am rn , do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today.

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just…

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.