True @phasion and @martinajjones I'm sorry that you have to deal with that! I just don't understand the people that want to pick apart a precious baby. Every little baby is perfect in it's own way and exactly how God created them!!!

Same with me. My son has been diagnosed with trisomy 19 and with that come alot of physical abnormalities and every time I get an ultrasound my MIL always says "why aren't his eyes open, does he even have eyes?" or "why are his hands closed, does he have fingers or just a giant blob?" or she asked "do they see anything wrong with his insides? are you sure nothing is wrong with him? I think he has kidney issues" like excuse me but you're a lawyer not a fkn ultrasound technician. and why do you have to point out the bad stuff? at least he's growing and kicking inside me which the doctors said he would do. #selfishass

Just tell her you don't want to keep hearing that and your baby is perfectly fine . God handles all that.