ladies, how do u deal with changing friendships? I have a friend that use to b my bff for since 2010 but since I've been pregnant I've been receiving txts and convos frm her saying that I belittle her every change I get and I've been insensitive when she's been nothing but happy and supportive for me. she sent me a text this morning with a similar context and ended by saying I'm a self absorbed princess. I apologize every time but its starting to wear on me. I feel like I can't b myself and I can't do or say anything around her. I'm trying to decide of I'm going crazy or if I'm actually the bi*ch she says I am. any thoughts?
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@lyvh3ads, I'm sorry it's hard to have a friend like that . ; ( but all you can do is say your peace. and maybe she will come sround . and maybe she is the with a problem not u good luck ❤
I appreciate all the feedback and prospectives ladies! 😊
@shaysaleen, Thx u. I have tried to discuss the topic with her but it never ends well. last few times I haven't brought it up cuz it didn't feel productive. I will have to continue to self reflect. it's def not easy.
@shaysaleen, well not everyone is the same I guess lol. I guess it's just me that feels that way.
@lyvh3ads you're welcome, anytime 😊
@liyahroyelle, thank u also for the encouragement. I have been seeing that more and more. I've held on to some hope lol but I'm seeing I may just need to let go
@alicia91,thank u for the encouragement. I don't know if she's jealous.. I've been trying to figure that out. we've hung out a few times and every time I think things went well and we had great convos, I get a txt a few days after. something I said bothered her followed by im belittling her,etc. I've hung out with her less and less cuz of that. so yes maybe she does feel like I don't have as much time for her. to me it felt sudden. that's y its frustrating.
^^ I do not agree I have had the same three best of friends since I was 11 years old we still talk on a daily basis . and two have a child and other dose not . u have work at any relationship it make it work and as far as your friendship tell her up front u dont need the ugly and tell her you want to stay friends but the things she is telling u is making it hard ! and it dose sound like she might be jealous !!!
It's the other way around for me. No one even talks to me anymore but I say there's no such thing as friends. You learn that after high school and definitely when you have a child. People only worry about themselves
I would say you know what, FORGET YOU! It seems like you have tried and tried and tried! Could it be shes jealous??? Like now you don't have as much time for "her" as before?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
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I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I've been so bored since I've been pregnant. I don't have the energy to run around all day with my friends and I can't party so yeah.
Thx u for the support ☺ it has been a tough road. it's nice to hear a friendly voice