@coraanne, thank you:)

That's good sat least you know he'll be a good father. Maybe next time you talk to him you can ask him to check in with you once a day. He's 17, yes, but he also has you and a son to worry about an adult responsibility. I bet everything will work out though and he'll be there.

@coraanne, and yes, I'm very close with both my mom and his mom

@coraanne, it's not that he doesn't want to be. I know he's going to be a great father and will all be there for our son. he's just in a really big funk right now and still wants to be a kid (just like any 17 year old boy would) ya know? I'm just worried because he doesn't have a phone and the friend he's staying with right now is a piece of shit. idk I know he'll be there I'm just being worried lol

Even if he's not there (which I hope he man's up and will be for you and baby) you will do wonderful! Are you close with your mom? My mom was a huge support for me my first time around.

@thumbalina, we aren't really together anymore as of a week ago... things are just difficult right now

then that can be a problem have you tried calling lately ? does he work out of town ?

@thumbalina, I know but in our situation, he's pretty hard to get a hold of....considering I haven't heard from him or where he's at in 2 days /:

you have to have a certain time between contractions to even be submitted to the hospital it is a very long process at first I use to worry to but I know now that you have to have a certain time limit between contractions so you will know when your baby is going to be here at least a few hours a head of time I'm a ftm also.