Does anyone elses hubby or boyfriend not realize how expensive taking care of a baby is? We went to…

Does anyone elses hubby or boyfriend not realize how expensive taking care of a baby is? We went to get our own place eventually but not with him wanting to do everything in the world with the extra money we have each week. He wants an Xbox one, to play golf more, to get a new car, and get bowling shoes and a ball so he can practice bowling when he already has a ball and shoes. God, I wish he'd let me manage the money. We'd be so much better off. He doesn't realize how broke we will be once our little girl is here.