Vent!! I am 6 months pregnant, I get up at 5am, I worked all day, picked up my son, got him a…
Vent!! I am 6 months pregnant, I get up at 5am, I worked all day, picked up my son, got him a haircut, took him shopping for a new phone (he used his own money) came home, did dishes that weren't mine, tidied up the house a bit and then realized I was STARVING! Mind you again, im 6 months pregnant and I had a bowl of cereal earlier that morning and a pop tart for a snack. My fiancé works 3rd shift and was sleeping, and as I said before I cleaned dishes that weren't mine so I knew he had eaten. I was craving pesto, I am THE ONLY ONE that likes pesto! My fiancé smelt the boiling water and hes suddenly awake! I had about a cup and a half of fettuccine and about a teaspoon pesto, only enough for ONE very hungry pregnant girl who worked all day and craved pesto! He comes out of the bedroom and says "Wheres mine?! I thought ypu made dinner!" I explain the situation and hes all pissed at me! I am so friggan sick of him thinking im sopposed to be responsible for cooking his ass dinner! I KNOW he ate before he went to sleep, and I cleaned his damn mess and his damn dishes! Then we start fighting over the laundry! He wants a metal because he seperated it FOR ME? I didn't know he did me a favor by seperating his own laundry mind you tomorrow is my day off and ill be at the laundry mat for about 5 hours with 15 loads of laundry! So sick of him thinking everythinf he does deserves a metal! Cook your own dinner and do your own damn laundry! PISSED OFF! I'd just LOVE for him to acknowledge ONCE that I am PREGNANT and work 40+ hours a week on my feet as a nurse and I am TIRED! I AM SO FRIGGAN TIRED!
missing88user·
Мама троих детей
it will get better love. but he needs to start helping you or kick rocks
stefaniamarie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
@momofroyalty, he was raised in a very stereo type environment, moms cook clean do all the laundry and take care of the men and children. If he wants that kind of wife then screw it ill quit my job and stay HOME!
Dlondra ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Damn U Vented 😣 Take It Easy
Dlondra ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Freaking MEN !!
deleted-user·
I see where you coming from and I can see where he's coming from as well lol . I guess the time you spent boiling water and such you could've made dinner it wouldn't have took extra time. The same time you spent making your own you could've made for your family so that's probably why he felt a certain way as well.
stefaniamarie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
@phasion, he already ate and he doesnt like pesto! My son didn't want pesto and there was only enough for one person. I worked all weekend, he was off, you think he cooked dinner for me?! No! I also buy all the food, about $800 a month he doesnt contribute or put into splitting the bills! Screw him!
missing10user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
mine was raised from that stereotype family to drives me insane especially from being raised by a single dad who did everything. cooked cleaned and worked. and my husband s family thinks it's a sin for the man to clean let alone make his own dinner plate.
deleted-user·
@cuety83, yikes well if that's the case I agree screw him !!!!
stefaniamarie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
@alicia3_21, ive been doing it for 3 years, I love taking care of my family, thats how I show my love, but being pregnant and having a medical condition which is exacerbated by pregnancy I just want him to cut me some slack and help out around the house, I work just as much as he does!
missing10user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yea if you're working to there's no excuse. it's not the 1900s
missing88user·
Мама троих детей
my husband is a gypsie so ik that feeling oh too well thank God I'm getting divorced