🚨🚨rant time!! 🚨🚨 ok ladies I don't know what to do.... me and my bd planned to move out together and for him to get a job..... well the baby is due June 26 so there was so time to waste so I took it upon myself to get my own place since he was not financially ready to do so.... he just started his new job last week and I feel bad BC now I don't want him to move in BC he irritates me and I know he is going to piss me off what should I do? I wouldn't mind the help with the bills but I don't feel attracted to him anymore 😕😕💔💔

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kevinsmomma·Мама сына (10 лет)

@kingkaidensmommy, thanks girl!!! only by the grace of god I got this place and I was able to make it all happen 😀😀 he helped with a few items but I paid more than half of everything...... I told him let's just focus on the baby and see what happens but he says that we need to fix our relationship before he comes which is in less than 2 weeks!!! so I don't see that happening... idk I just don't feel the same way I used to feel about him and it really bothers me but I can't help the way I feel.... I guess we will see after our son gets here

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passion·Мама сына (10 лет)

kudos to you btw doing what you have to do for u and ur baby w/o waiting around for him 👏🏾👏🏾

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Temesha·Мама троих детей

Yup I Agree with the list idea @kingkaidensmommy

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passion·Мама сына (10 лет)

I agree w @temeshawalker even make a list of pros and cons .

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Temesha·Мама троих детей

Ask yourself why your irritated with him??? no one can make the decision easier.. Ask yourself without him is it easier..

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passion·Мама сына (10 лет)

omg I'm going thru the exact same thing ! everyone tells me it's the pregnancy , it's the hormones . my bd and I planned to love together but had no luck . now I'm planning on fixing my credit , saving and moving on my own . some days I feel bad but I think it's best

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kevinsmomma·Мама сына (10 лет)

thanks ladies!!! the last couple months I have slowly lost feelings for him and there is nothing that can bring them back 😕 he spent the night last night and it was just weird when he touched me I wanted to slap him idk if its the pregnancy or what??

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Natanya·Мама сына (10 лет)

I agree with the previous ladies. I wouldn't let him move in, especially if he's irritating you and your not even living together. It won't get better. good luck girl

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ana·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

even if the extra help would be good don't do it save yourself the time girl....

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oh no bueno don't have him move in then because it sounds like its going to be arguments especially you not being attracted to him (which is sad and can be hurtful to him) and irritates you.

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