🚨🚨rant time!! 🚨🚨 ok ladies I don't know what to do.... me and my bd planned to move out together and for him to get a job..... well the baby is due June 26 so there was so time to waste so I took it upon myself to get my own place since he was not financially ready to do so.... he just started his new job last week and I feel bad BC now I don't want him to move in BC he irritates me and I know he is going to piss me off what should I do? I wouldn't mind the help with the bills but I don't feel attracted to him anymore 😕😕💔💔
kudos to you btw doing what you have to do for u and ur baby w/o waiting around for him 👏🏾👏🏾
Ask yourself why your irritated with him??? no one can make the decision easier.. Ask yourself without him is it easier..
omg I'm going thru the exact same thing ! everyone tells me it's the pregnancy , it's the hormones . my bd and I planned to love together but had no luck . now I'm planning on fixing my credit , saving and moving on my own . some days I feel bad but I think it's best
thanks ladies!!! the last couple months I have slowly lost feelings for him and there is nothing that can bring them back 😕 he spent the night last night and it was just weird when he touched me I wanted to slap him idk if its the pregnancy or what??
I agree with the previous ladies. I wouldn't let him move in, especially if he's irritating you and your not even living together. It won't get better. good luck girl
@kingkaidensmommy, thanks girl!!! only by the grace of god I got this place and I was able to make it all happen 😀😀 he helped with a few items but I paid more than half of everything...... I told him let's just focus on the baby and see what happens but he says that we need to fix our relationship before he comes which is in less than 2 weeks!!! so I don't see that happening... idk I just don't feel the same way I used to feel about him and it really bothers me but I can't help the way I feel.... I guess we will see after our son gets here