when you feel like a bad mother before your child is even born because your friend is judging u

Ya my bf says that too

@momma_beffers anyone looks at me crazy for spanking my child can kiss my butt and yes he is in the picture he is against but said im carrying him so its my choice

My in laws where judging me when I said I was going to spank my child. it's between u and the father if the father is in the picture ...

@kmrie thank u

Ya so she has a daughter how can she judge you?... Your having a son there is a diff untill she has to go through what you do for that choice she shouldn't be judging your not a bad mother

@kmrie that was my argument with her and she said i was uneducated

It is for health reason... It's hard to keep clean an it can cause other problems done the line if they don't have the surgery research it

@harata87 thank u

In No way damn autocorrect *

@harata87 they do it right after he is born here . inactivist is huge here and only thing im passionate about is breastfeeding

@sammyjo4life, I had it done with my first son , and I plan to do with little mister .. I can tell you that I am in know way a bad mother .. It's a decision that you have to make for your son and what you think is best ! When I was making the appointment for my first boy the secretary was like don't worry he doctor is good at what he does I have seen boys leave here not even crying and I thought to myself yeahhhh right , but she was right I was present during the whole procedure and the doctor was good at what he did . It was quick and my son didn't cry a peep . It healed quickly and required no bandage changing .. Don't let people tell you something that isn't true... They are shitty for judging you !!!

she has done research as i have but we stand on different grounds @prettynpink

@sammyjo4life, it's better to have your son circumcised bc it is healthy and it's not cosmetic surgery. If I was you just do the research and talk to your doctor about it. plus how would she know if she has a girl.

@preggiemommyincorona thank u u made me feel bettee abour my choice

@sammyjo4life it's just more clean to have it done but if not you have to clean it all the time and when they get older you need to show them how to clean it which is why if you don't have it done you can have health issues but in the end it's your choice

@preggiemommyincorona its my religion plus my step brother didnt have it done and he had health problems and wished his mom did it when he was a baby

@sammyjo4life what um.....no she needs to realize that it has to do with health reasons only......or your religion I had it done on my son but I know my cousin who's husband is decided against it since she didn't want her soon looking at her husband and saying why aren't we the same

@preggiemommyincorona i didnt know it was a big deal if i did or didnt until she started sending me videos and saying that . @kmrie she has a girl and i want to it healthy for them and she said its not its cosmetic surgery

Do they have any kids? Cuz that's the first question here lol an two it's your child your dissection I'm having a boy an I plan on getting him circumcised

Sorry to say but your the baby mother and its your choice only so tell them to butt out

@momtobe830 they are and im undecided and they said if i do it im a bad mother ...

are u against it

@kmrie bc im having a boy and i have decided if im against circumcision or not @momtobe830 yes i think ill be a good mother

How are they judging you?

don't listen to your friend do u think you going to be a good mother if u think u going to be a good mother that is all that matters