I just don't understand why he won't talk to me. Even when it's only about his unborn baby. Like…

don't let it get to u

I am here if u want to talk

some guys don't become dad's until the baby is actually here. us, We become mothers as soon as we find out we r pregnant. be patient with him.

@mommymikk, he already has a son. he should know the joy and responsibility of it more than me being a FTM. bit he clearly could care less about this baby. 😢 I've been so patient with him. and I've tried more ways than most do to keep him just involved in his kids life, and the baby isn't even here yet. if this is what it's gonna be like when the baby is here, I rather just get the heartache over now and move on.

and thank you! @momtobe830

my first child dad want anything to do with our son but he felt guilty just watch he going to feel guilty and he going to want to be around

@momtobe830, I don't want the in and out BS tho. if you're out now, you're out 100%. 😒👍👌✋👏

I'm in the exact same boat! I just hope I don't end up being bitter and mad after all my depression about his abandonment.

@septson, I feel like I'm already bitter bc all he gushed about and praised himself on while we were still talking was how much he lives his son and how being a dad is the greatest thing. and now? some father... I don't think it's fair if he thinks he can just be there once the baby's born. you haven't been there since day one, why should you get to play daddy now?! ugh 😠

@uhoh2015, I completely understand. .. I hope my baby's father doesn't come around at all when the baby comes. it'll be devastating.

exactly. me either @septson . and I'm not gonna tell him anymore either. if he wants to grow up and make the effort, fine. if not, ✌.

please feel free to message me anytime. I need some of your kind of thinking in my life

Same for you @septson 😊

He's going to feel guilty and most of the time they will try to come into their lives after they are born , which is what mine did even though she's been on this earth for almost a month and he's seen her twice and now wants to talk about court shit .. like bye Felicia

That's fine, take me to court. but you can bet your bottom dollar he WON'T see my baby until he makes the effort, whether that be thru court or his own will. 👌✋👏😬@alainalovesmommy

good keep it like that , your baby doesn't need any half ass people

@alainalovesmommy, AMEN! 👐