okay so my MIL and me have had several problems in the past.... from her lying saying I cheated on…

okay so my MIL and me have had several problems in the past.... from her lying saying I cheated on Alex and paisley wasn't his daughter, and saying I'm a whore and keeping us away from each other before we were adults.... well she has a horrible drinking problem. and lately (since april) we've become pretty close and she would come over almost everyday and come hangout with me paisley.... well about a week ago she got hammered and text me saying I'm fake and she told her family that I keep paisley from her and she never sees her? she always asks for paisley to spend the night at her house (she has no AC and it's 109° right now, her house is covered in mold, she doesn't clean and she's an extreme hoarder. I don't even go to her house cause its disgusting.... I wouldn't let paisley there!) and I always tell her I'm not comfortable but she thinks I'm picking favorites cause I allow my mom to pick up paisley whenever she wants and spend the night at her house.... my mom is so supportive and she's not an alcoholic like my MIL! also my mom has been there for me since day one..

my MIL skipped My whole pregnancy and showed up to the hospital after she was born... then only saw her like 3x from December- February (she was born December 6th) and missed out on her life from February- September cause she wouldn't give up alcohol! now we're not talking again and I'm listed confidential at the hospital for my c-section on Monday cause I don't want anyone there besides my oldest daughter (paisley -18 months), my mom and Alex.... I don't want the stress and drama anymore :( sorry. rant over.