a question for you mummies that are in a relationship but not married... is bubba having mummys…

Little girl has fathers surname, as hopefully one day so will I :-) x

Mine his having daddy's surname .. I have always called her baby Davis never my surname it doesn't feel right xxx

Mine is having both 😊 xx

Mine is having her daddy's :)

Mine is having her daddy's surname baby Stanford .. Would be too long if we double barrelled !! X

thanks ladies.. mines having her daddys name, its never been in question.. my mum just asked whose surname baby is having and when i said my partners, she came out with "big mistake!". shes never had a problem with him. we both feel slightly disheartened xx

Mine little boy has his Daddy's and so will this one. My Grandma is a big believer that if you aren't married the child should have the mothers surname incase the relationship doesn't last. I don't think that should matter as it's still going to be their dad no matter if you're together or not but yeah😕 xx

Mines having daddy's surname xxx

Dads surname :) xx

all my kids are double barrelled x

Double barrelled:) x

My little man has his daddy's surname. I don't want to get married as I think "if it ain't broke don't fix it" but I'm probably going to change my surname so were all the same. X

thanks :-) shes definitely having her daddy's surname.. ours are too long to double barrel too xx

My partners culture it's important for the child to take the fathers name, and double barrels are not an option ....im not a fan though! Right now, I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place 😔

ooh thats interesting @candypops would u rather baby had ur name or double barrell it if u could? xx

I'd rather his if I liked it but I don't but mine fits with the names I like. I am willing to compromise with a double barrel but he's having none of it. I just avoid the conversation at all costs lol. I suppose it will be that way until baby is born @essex-angel

haha aww these men, they're rubbish at compromising :-/ good luck @candypops hope u get the name u want hehe x

Thanks chick! hope I get at least a compromise @essex-angel 😄

Double barrelled surname for our little man x