So I need to rant cause I have no one else to talk to. Caught my husband smoking weed with his brother after he has made numerous promises to me that he will not do it again. My son is already seeing how he does and copying him so this bothers me and we had a big fight about it tonight. He also lies to me about his drinking telling me he will cut back but he continues to lie. His father was a drunk and that's not what I want for me and my children. But he thinks it's okay to lie because he loves me unconditionally and supports me. But to me lying is a big deal if you will lie about the little things he will lie about the big things. What should I do? I love him but tired of being lied to all the time
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Tell him if he continues lying you guys won't get anywhere, you have to be strong for yourself and your son, he can't be around that type of stuff especially if he's starting to copy him and shit, horrible influence!! And you're totally right, if he's lying about this it would make me wonder what else he lies about..better keep your eye open mama. Wish you the best of luck!
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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
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So over this feeling!
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Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
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I just want his arms wrapped around me one last time and hear words come out of his mouth that arent true "I love you".. I miss him so bad. My first love! My first relationship! He was many of my first and I know today isnt even the hardest day yet.. I literally hate that I love him so much.
I'm going through the exact same thing! Hunny, when you find out let me know. But I will tell you this. It looks like a cycle that will never change! For me it's not easy to just get up and go. I have no job and know one to help. Now this man gets drunk , we get in a argument...and about once a month he gets to upset and puts his hands on me and bangs me up alil. He apologizes once he's done cooling off and swears hill never do it again. My man's addicted to being addicted. Not unless he sobers up hill never change! and the lies won't either. I don't even know where do begin change and I don't think he ever will. Mabie the baby will open his eyes. mabie not. keep me posted girl. Mabie you figure out something that I could not.