I'm going through the exact same thing! Hunny, when you find out let me know. But I will tell you this. It looks like a cycle that will never change! For me it's not easy to just get up and go. I have no job and know one to help. Now this man gets drunk , we get in a argument...and about once a month he gets to upset and puts his hands on me and bangs me up alil. He apologizes once he's done cooling off and swears hill never do it again. My man's addicted to being addicted. Not unless he sobers up hill never change! and the lies won't either. I don't even know where do begin change and I don't think he ever will. Mabie the baby will open his eyes. mabie not. keep me posted girl. Mabie you figure out something that I could not.

Tell him if he continues lying you guys won't get anywhere, you have to be strong for yourself and your son, he can't be around that type of stuff especially if he's starting to copy him and shit, horrible influence!! And you're totally right, if he's lying about this it would make me wonder what else he lies about..better keep your eye open mama. Wish you the best of luck!