I just finished writing my birth plan, (please ladies PRAY! My little one turns so i can give birth naturally! I have a bicornuate uterus so the sooner he turns now that i'm 26 weeks the better!) on another note i'm terrified of my son having a circumcision we will be doing this as per tradition but i'm worried about the cleaning and health maintenance i will have to do? What should i be prepared for? How long does it take to heal? Will he be in pain?
dont worry too much about the circumcision. I went through two of them and will be doing my third soon.. the drs will tell you what to do for cleaning and all that stuff. :) from both my boys, I wasnt allowed to be present for the circumcision.
He really won't be in pain. It's much better to do it now. If I was you go get like 2-3 tubes of pet. Jelly! We would rub it in the front of his diaper as well as on his penis. I think it's like 2-3 weeks of doing that. He will be fine :) I promise.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
So how do you Ladies feel about birth control. I'm against it cause I want my body to do what it naturally does. I've faced infertility issues so I'm not for it but my mom feels I should be on it after I have Tyson.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So my water just broke and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do and I'm home alone
Just make sure you get a lot of Vaseline. I liked the squeezable ones. You'll want to make it like an ice cream on a cone (spiral around the entire top part) that way the skin doesn't stick to the diaper.