When I first got pregnant u was always in my face askin how the baby was doing and all that!! And for six whole months u have never been to not one of my doc appointments!! U didn't even help me with nuthing for my baby shower.. Since u wonna act like that when my baby get here I hope u stay that way cause my baby aint gonna need for nuthing!! Don't be all in my baby face cause u ain't even care when I needed u to!! My baby don't need no part time daddy!! U can leave us alone!!! No love lost jus lesson learned..💝me and mine that's all that matter..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So would it be considered desperate to put my baby registry on here? his family doesnt like me and wont even talk to me and my family really isnt even close at all. only ppl i have is my mom and little sis who is 13 and i dont want all the stress on my mom but my husband and i literally have 3 outfits 2 blankets and thats all... idk what else to do and i feel like a complete failure because i feel ill have nothing for my baby cause i cant even afford a carseat or diapers or anything he needs.....
*UPDATE*
Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this ...
OT. rant! forward facing early
ok, so in my birth month forum (October 2012) someone posted a picture of their lo riding in the car in a forward facing seat! what???? it baffles me when parents do this. I'm not trying to offend anyone.. but why do ppl do this?? the oldest baby in our birth month is 9 months, she was 3 months premature. but even at 9 months I wouldn't have my child forward facing.
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
👣 sounds just like my child father