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Need some advice... My boyfriend and I are not doing okay and I don't want to be in this relationship. It's not that I…

Need some advice... My boyfriend and I are not doing okay and I don't want to be in this relationship. It's not that I don't love him, we have been through a lot together and I care about this man but I am not in love with him and staying in this relationship I have become really angry and having PPD on top of it all... I have three reasons I have stayed and I don't know what to do....

1. His grandfather who we both adore could pass at any day. (Lung, liver and bone cancer, stage four)

2. I don't want our son to be affected by us not being together and I don't know how to do this in a healthy way so he is safe and secure. (4 months old)

3. He's not exactly a stable person... He told me when we were together for only two weeks that he would kill himself if we ever broke up and he took that back when I said that wasn't fair of him to say... But now with his grandpa I just am afraid something will happen....

I am really lost and I don't know what to do. I think I've know that this isn't working since before I found out I was pregnant and I so badly want this to work but it's just not. And it's affecting my ability to be the mom I should be... I'm frustrated and sad. I told him about a month ago that I wanted out and then we found out about his grandpa and then boom... We were back together. What do I do? Do I wait until after his grandpa has passed and he's had time to recover? Do I leave now and hope for the best? ( this option feels right to me but I feel extremely guilty even thinking it) I don't know what to do... Can you be a single mom and have a happy baby? Will he be damaged?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Mamas I just don't know what to do. I think my boyfriend may be cheating but I'm not too sure. Well first of he is an…

Mamas I just don't know what to do. I think my boyfriend may be cheating but I'm not too sure. Well first of he is an excellent dad and loves all of his children. He loves our son to death. But today in his vest pocket I found 2 condoms. He and I have never ever used condoms in all the time we have been together which brings me to think he's cheating. I caught him In a lie about 2 years ago when I seen he was cheating. I don't know if I want to keep putting up with the unfaithfulness. Not to mention I am currently pregnant with our second child.

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge

Keep the baby or Abortion.......

Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(