I breast fed while in hospital for 5 days but as soon as I got home I was in so much pain that I couldn't carry on.
I didn't have much help back then.
hopefully you get the help and push through the pain.
men can be arses sometimes.
makes me so angry.
kick him up the ass. not nice feeling like you are doing this all alone.
well I'm here if you ever need a rant :-) xx

I am very worried about the breast feeding @bee1979 but I have a feeding nurse coming to see me on Friday to help me harvest my milk so I have enough milk to give baby in hospital & she will help me when I get home...must have been tough on your own darling..!! But then women are strong & TBF my partner hasn't been interested - he won't touch my belly when baby moves & when I have has swollen feet he has refused to massage my feet... Plus goes out every weekend boozing& has taken me out once in the 9 months I have been pregnant - asked him to take me cinema this weekend and he said no 💔

wow what a whooper bless.
It was hard as I was a single parent.
Some pain when walking for about 10 days.
I just took it easy.
only thing was I really wanted to breast feed but couldn't as was too painful everytime she latched on and fed it pulled my tummy muscles.
so had to stop.
that was the only draw back for me.x

@bee1979, no this is my first baby... They say baby is abnormally large & estimating 11-12lbs 😱. How did you find the recovery, were you able to look after baby ok on your own xx

oo u look comfy there lol u just need a butler and ull be sorted :-) im part of the "got to have a c section too club" x

I had a c section with my first.
have you had a c section before?
you look nice and comfy there :-) x