most insurance companies will cover all or most of the cost for anger management and therapy. just call your insurance company and ask what places they can cover!

no he hasnt it. yes he does. and we have talked about going but idk how much it is or how to even go about it. @sgtpeppertheory

has he said anything else to you? maybe he needs help. anger management or therapy? maybe you guys can go to couples therapy?

shes 21. my boyfriend is just ride and he doesnt care literally. like if we fight or even when we talk all he says is i don't care which pisses me off and causes an argument. no not really alot my other family is either in jail for drugs or they are out and they use. so really this is the only place me and henlei can be. which isnt terrible all time. cause when me and him get along and stuff uts good but then we agrue and hes so mean and messed up and it makes it bad. its just tough...@courtney_boyea,

how old is your sister? I think you can call the cops and have them not say it was you that called. she sounds like she needs a rude awakening. I'm sure your boyfriend is good and by everything I have read he sounds like he just needs to grow up. although he is a father that doesn't always make them grow up. I would tell you to threaten him and say you will leave for good if he doesn't change but from your past fights I wouldn't want you to be in that situation again especially with henlei. do you have any other family members that you could stay with for a bit

i think about calling them on her she likes to beat up on my brother and fight with him and my mom all the time. but then i could only imagine how many problems that would bring on so i just try to stay out if it. my boyfriend is a jerk. i don't mean to talk all bad about him cause he is good too. but alot of the time his bad outweighs his good. @courtney_boyea

oh my god girl. I just read all the comments. if you lived by me I would force you to come stay at my house with henlei! that is awful with your sister. maybe she needs to have the cops called on her too. and with your boyfriend. he sounds very suspicious about something.

yeah she knows everything. shes been saying she was gonna move for a while but she never does. and my sister doesnt listen to nobody. one time when i left to my moms i left to do something came back and she had just smoked in the house. she threw all mine and my babys stuff in the living room and she smoked in the room. (the same room i was sleeping in). my sister dont care about no one. @sgtpeppertheory

haha it's ok! does you mom know about all of this with him? maybe if you tell her what you've told me she will make a bigger effort and try to move sooner, or maybe get your sister to quit smoking and bringing weed around in her house now so you can stay somewhere else at least.😕

oops tagged you twice lol

the only place around here that is like that only helps if its a domestic violence situation. 😕 @sgtpeppertheory my mom keeps saying shes gonna move some where bigger so me and henlei can live with her and that she wont let my sister live there unless she stops smoking and bringing weed around but idk. it hasnt happened and im not sure it will. @sgtpeppertheory

yeah I wouldn't want that either, particularly if marijuana is still illegal where you are. drugs in a home with a child doesn't look very good. you could still maybe try the housing assistance, or maybe even try a financial adviser. they can probably help you because you and henlei don't need to stay around that.)-:

no im a stay at home mom. im not unfit but im worried that if i move to my moms my sister will still try to smoke or he will even call his cop buddys and tell them theres marijuana around. which i wouldnt let it around my child and i would beat my sisters ass if she smoked near her. it just worries me the thought of it. and im sure he wouldnt get custody or be able to take her because of his criminal history but the thought still scares me. and he likes to threaten that he will take her. or if i tell him ill leave hell say he will just see her when shes older because he wont want to see me. @sgtpeppertheory

that makes no sense at all!?!? he can't take your baby away from you. do you work? or do you stay at home with babe? in my state there's housing assistance and they help find you an affordable place to live and help pay for it so it's not nearly as much. he can't get her taken away from you because your mom, unless you somehow prove unfit which I know you aren't so hard not a worry!

yeah it sucks. i would go with my mom but my sister likes to smoke weed in my mothers house and she doesnt care much about anyone else so going there isnt really an option cause my bf will try to take henlei so its not really worth the risk. ive started to not even really care about my relationship or expect much out of it. thanks to his recent interest in porn he doesnt have much to do with me and we normally argue because he tries to tell me what i can and cant do with his daughter. im just here because i won't get her taken away here. @sgtpeppertheory

I would just ask to see his time sheet to see if he's really been at work and working! if he freaks out and refuses something wouldn't seem right.😕 I'm sorry you guys have to go through this.)-:

oh yeah he has a lying problem. and hes had problems being faithful before...not since ive been pregnant or since i had henlei but i wouldnt put it past him. even if he texts me back he will probably just lie. and expect me to believe it...i wont. but i have no where safe enough for me and my baby to go 😳😕 @sgtpeppertheory

that's strange af. I hope he texts you back soon and you get answers! has he been unfaithful or lied before?😕

yeah i texted him. but havent heard from him. he works at a butter plant where they make butter and package it. he normally just throws on bb shorts and a tshirt which he did do today but he never takes a backpack and i noticed his normal shoes are gone too along with his work boots. he has one of his uniforms here so i thought maybe he was taking it back to work but it's still here so idk wth he packed a bag for??? @sgtpeppertheory

@juliagail09, did you ask him why? what does he do for a living?

yeah well its just weird because he has never ever done it before and was acting weird before he left....idk what to think but im preparing myself for the worst. normally thats what the outcome is. @sgtpeppertheory

girl you sound like me. if my fiancé does anything odd before work I'll be like, "why are you doing that? what's that for?" I trust him but I don't do suspicious unusual activity lol.