I didn't tear, an yes we did it at 3 weeks. We couldn't hold off honestly. It did hurt we just took it super slow!!! An really took our time getting back to normal. An it wasn't like we did it every day, it was like once or twice a week after that.
I heard your really fertile right after having a baby, that's why your dr will encourage you to get on BC. I tore pretty bad because of the clamps they used to pull the baby out & I waited 3 months, it felt weird but I was fine. it still feels weird down there till this day (7 months later) lol
@mommymikk, oh my lol thats another reason im waiting
I wish I would have because I had so many problems with it afterwards. and got pregnant again lol @kristinlynn0903
@mommymikk, I didn't year either but they want you to wait to make sure your cervix is closed and that you're healed from where the placenta detached. I think I will wait to be safe
but you really should wait until your 6 week check up to make sure everything went back into place
@kimberlyyyy, I know I was just wondering I'm not brave enough to do it lol @emilyyy96___
I waited not even 2 weeks and I was fine. But I didn't tear during birth or anything like that.
I waited 8 weeks and I still cried and I had a c-section lol
you're brave just thinking about that hahaha.
Uhhh. I waited 5 MONTHS to have sex after my son && even that hurt. You know why you're supposed to wait 6 weeks or until your check up right? Make sure you don't get any infections, make sure everything in there looks good, have any questions answered if you have them, talk to your doctor about any future plans for birth control... Anyway I won't give you 💩 but I would have to say it's probably normal for it to hurt a lot when you're still healing.
I did and yes it did. I screamed very loud and told him to stop lol and I didn't have a tear