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faithplus2
this shit is really starting to get irritating like I'm to the point where I just wanna call it quits wit him but I want to give my child the chance to have ah family but when everything seems to be about him and he makes it about me and brings up everything I did in the past like okay yeah that happened I fucked up but now I'm doing Wat im supposed to do and ur still fucking up so grow up and do ur part #pissed
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faithplus2

OMG@mssjudyk we are like in the boat they just don't get it ion know what's wrong them I really don't

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OMG@mssjudyk we are like in the boat they just don't get it ion know what's wrong them I really don't

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Peter is the same way, he tells me i never wanna talk about our problems, well dude when we do we end up arguing cuz u can't admit your faults and move the f#&k on! I don't ignore him, I just tell him what he wants to hear... saves me all the drama...
in the beginning and before we got preggers I was the one paying all the bills. rent, food, phone, clothes, toiletries... never onced complained till I got pregnant. I'd come home from work and everything would be messy. and i just got so fed up i left. i went 400 miles away and was staying with my family. well that taught him a lesson.. one of his chick friends was tellin me how he'd tell her he was gonna change and have everything we needed for our baby cuz he really loved me. now we have a house and he has a great career.. but now that I'm not working it's a constant problem. he always tells me i dont do shit that i need to get a job... I'm like dude, u see this big ass belly, would YOU hire my 9 month pregnant ass??? and after the baby is born are YOU gonna pay for the baby sitter? cuz I'm not gonna work just to give my whole paycheck tonsomeone to watch my child. and still jave to come here and clean up after your messy as and make sure dinner is ready. you think i just sit on my ass all day? it's stressing me out. i keep asking myself WHY i got pregnant, everything is so difficult now. It's not like I'll have freedom any more. he doesn't get that..

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@mssjudyk, see when I try to ingnore him or I just say okay he like that's why we can't get nowhere u never wanna talk about our problems but when I do it just turns into an argument and I don't have time for that. like before he got his job I was taking care of him and my son by myself and yeah we lost our apartment because I was paying all the bills and taking care of his grown ass by myself and now that he has ah job its like all the money he makes is for him he don't want to help with anything we just got an apartment and he cried about 50$ like that shouldn't be ah big deal it's for OUR apartment he just thinks about Wat he needs he don't put priorities first he would rather go buy weed and get tattoos knowing we have to start completly over like it's so irritating

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trust is hard to rebuild

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I say wait. amd see how he is when baby is here. be patient and try to avoid arguments.. it takes a while for their father instincts to kick in. We have em right away because we're carrying the child..
i try to avoid as many arguments as possible... I always tell him ok now.. anything he says ok.. he knows something is wrong. he does the same thing to me, brings up the past. im like dude, you've done worst things, I've gone to hell amd back with you. Ive been here for u since day one. I'm not working so he constantly tells me i don't due shit. i left for a week amd when i cam le back to out house it looked like a dump. he just had his head down the whole time I was cleaning. I've been killin him with kindness. He confessed to me yesterday that I make him feel bad. good! you should feel bad. you are so frickin messy it's not even funny. what you think I have a wand and magically clean your shit up? I pay for the groceries, you think they cook themselves? like dude please you say i don't due shit, well i showed him.

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we only been together for 1 year bit been friends since 2012 we met at school...and since I got pregnant its cause I lost my sex drive and he just think I'm being an ass but its just I don't feel comfortable having sex@soon2bemomof2

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soon2bemomof2

I went back and forth for 5 1/2. it was a waste of time. @faithplus2 how long have you two been together and how long has he been this way?

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faithplus2

yeah me too @soon2bemomof2 but I don't want it to seem like I didn't even try to make things work but its getting stressful

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think about the example you want set for your child. how do you want your child to be treated in a relationship in his or her future. Staying to get for a child is not the way to go. I have been there, done that!

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