I feel so bad for my bf, I lost my sex drive completely. the things I liked I am now repulsed by. I don't want to spoon or cuddle anymore. all he wants is affection and it's hard for me to give him that, and I don't know how to change this because I used to be the affectionate one not him. 😦
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oh lorddd hahaha.. a Convo? haha too crazy.. lol oh them hormones!! we the opposites haha @firsttimemommy89
Everyone is different but I'll be praying with you lol
my man usually freaks out the day after we have sex saying it's been to long but since I yelled at him that I couldn't give it up all the time cause I'm not in the mood, he's like not even hiding that he "relieves himself" I walked in on him in the middle of him doing his thing and he started a convo. with me lol. I thought I'd have the higher sex drive cause I'm 18 and my bf is 27 but I guess not lol @jsb87
Oh you'll get it back and then some 😂😂😂
Lol I didn't even think about the 6 weeks!! on top I'm having a c section ugh.... mines complaining over 2 days of sex I can't imagine a week!!. lol omg ditto so is mine, we just talked about this an hr ago, I now Started blaming it on my age (he's 21 and I'm 27) and backaches lol @firsttimemommy89
I hope I get it back lol I miss wanting sex haha @tracynangel
I was like that til it came back in full force the second trimester, only he started to lose it lol
I wonder how well my bf will take that, he's freaking out cause we haven't had sex for a week I wonder how he's gonna act when I have the baby and can't have sex for like 6 weeks haha. he's like a sex addict 😂 @jsb87
they just going have to put up with it until baby comes out and our bodies heal and go back to normal as possible @firsttimemommy89
girl I know how you feel. he gets so frustrated about not having sex that everything else I do/don't do makes him. I can't clean as hard core as I used to, I have morning sickness all day long. pregnancy is taking a toll on me and I wish he understood more of what I'm going through. @jsb87
omg you sound just like me!! ima have to show him proof it's not just me. my husband jumps everytime cuz I shriek at top of my lungs when he tries to be on his sneaky shit at night in bed.. Told him this cujo don't play.. like damn I cook, clean, draw his baths and massage him e very night after his 12 he shift (would assume he's beat tired) even with my waddling my ass and still he wants to get handsie on me. I'm like there goes the shower use freezing cold water... I understand he has needs but needs to respect and understand me First.. I won't be pregnant forever... men are just something else smh.. @firsttimemommy89
@harata87, I try to tell him this is just a phase and it's cause I'm pregnant but the thing is we didn't plan this baby. so to him it's so frustrating and I wish I could change this for him. I tried forcing myself to have sex with him one time and I couldn't stand to have him over me sweating. it made me sick to my core and I feel like the world's hugest asshole..
oh you and me both hun! I get so frustrated at him. id rather us not have any contact while we sleep, I push him away and I accidently snapped on him the other night. I feel like I'm turning into a monster. @jsb87
@firsttimemommy89, that's exactly how I am. I don't understand it. sometimes I make myself have sex so I can satisfy him.
I am in the same boat !! I am almost 23 weeks and everything is repulsive to me right now .. I don't want him kissing me touching me and I deff don't want to have sex !! I was this way with my first pregnancy as well .. I just tell him I love him and I'm sorry I'm such a pain right now but it will be worth it in the end just bare with me .. I have to try to make him understand it's not him it's DEFF me
I get horny as well but the thought of the actual act of intercourse is so repulsive to me and I don't what to do. it's taking a toll on my relationship.. @queenquee
Ditto. I try to get into it but I just can't, I get annoyed easily . I'd rather just curl up alone. hopefully it's jist pregnancy phase and goes away after @firsttimemommy89
That is me. I've been like that for a min. I mean I get "horny" just don't want to have sex or when the time comes i feel like ugh no, nevermind. lol i can't wait until my sex drive dk come back. cause my husband be going through it 😟
oh that is so me! I wake up and he's cuddling me and he rubs his junk on me, and I get so mad at him. I don't want him touching me at all. I can tell it's breaking his heart. @jsb87
same here. I can't stand my husband touching me or trying do cute romantic stuff. I feel bad and he assumes I do it on purpose which I don't. Ughh. Glad I'm not alone on this. firsttimemommy89,
I feel your pain sweetie, I don't know why I feel this way ugh. @emilywebb
Omg I'm the same way!! I'm happy to know someone is in the same place I am, Idk what to do!
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these hormones are kicking my butt and I'm only 6 weeks ugh haha @jsb87