read...n write...and paint....get all ur emotions on some creative tasks...it will help fight away all the negative ppl around u. stay positive n calm when they provoke u. because they want to mess with ur pregnacy and u cant let them

@yummycake i go for a walk unless they put me on br then i take my butt to the pool

id make myself a few sandwhiches and pass my time outside of the home if i had ppl around bugging me. at curfew u can come n sleep or b on preggy. invest ur time in what gives u inner peace. i use to b in a bad situation with my two kids and i spend my time in parks or librarys and in my car. with them.

@yummycake as long as i live in this house i have a curfew

nah u need to get out to meet strangers...sometimes they b more supportive than our own relatives. dont let negative people get ur best....just ignore them and invest in people who want to build u up.

@yummycake my honey hardly ever talks back to his mom it shocked me and ik im around a lot im turning back into my loner stage bc of it

u r around lot of bs. be careful of ur feelings. focus on good things and negative just forget it.

wow ur man just earned his stripe ....pretty cool

@yummycake my honey wouldn't take it his mom got so mad

resale it trade it in

Good luck!

thank you @tracynangel

Doesn't matter. No one can force you to take stuff! He can't put the stuff in the trunk then get rid of it you never even have to see it again.

we go there tomorrow to pick up his mail @tracynangel

Well there's no point building up anxiety around the stuff if you haven't even been given it yet! Take it one day at a time! You're stressing stresses the baby too!

@babygirl10-11, that's what I was concerned about bc I was there when he told his mother not to get any and his sister called and goes doesn't sammy flip her kid when she sees spongebob and he goes yeah ... why and she was just like I'm informing you mother has two tubs full of spongebob stuff planned to give y'all ... my heart stopped

my aunt doesn't believe it happened even tho she was there when my dr did my pelvic exam my aunt is being spiteful. @tracynangel

Omg that is the most terrible thing ever! I'm so sorry you had to endure that! Well you could also not accept their gifts if they already know why you should respect that! If they don't then leave it outside! Or donate it!

if she was told not to why would she still do it ? if she does get that stuff u throw that crap in the trash right in her face

I was sexually assaulted growing up and one of the things he did to me was use my brand new spongebob you on me and I haven't been able to watch look or even hear the sound of spongebob . ik my aunt don't like me but mil knows better bc my bf done warned her not to do this . @tracynangel

That's so interesting! What about soongebob scares you? And why would they stock up on that stuff? The baby doesn't even know who that is!