I can't talk to your back and your ears are selective. You want to buy things for the babies but not discuss it with me so we can be more efficient. All you want to discuss is a lack of affection from me (it's always me). Or how I never want to do what you want not once have you suggested anything to me so why would I know. I see the road we are on and I hope it changes before the inevitable comes. Either way my children will be fine and we will have what we need.