🚨PLEASE READ🚨So I don't have a job right now, but my boyfriend does. He is the one who supports me. When I go to my WIC appointment, they will want his pay stub for the month of May. Is it possible for me to get denied because HE makes too much?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Sarah·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
good!
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
Oh ok you are good then
korasmommy·
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@soon2bemomof2, @elenaj I just looked at the wic guidelines for income, and we are WAY below, so I don't think his income will be an issue.
Sarah·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
you can definitely be denied because of his income. I would do with @elenaj said. good luck @zobo122193
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
I would say I live by myself . You guys aren't married .
korasmommy·
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@elenaj, they want to know because he is head household.
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
I wouldn't even say nothing to wic about my boyfriends" income . You guys aren't married so don't say nothing
korasmommy·
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@xoxo512070, I told them nothing about my boyfriend for foodstamps because I know I'd get way less or none at all, so I told them I just was renting from him and I paid the amount I got for babysitting.
korasmommy·
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@parkers_mommy, wouldn't that be lovely! I think I actually read that here too, that if I have medicaid or foodstamps, I qualify, thanks for the reminder!
xoxo512070·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
@zobo122193, that might be,my fiance has to be on our food stamps and stuff but for some reason not WIC even though he lives with us
Kailynn·
@zobo122193, here in Nevada that makes you automatically qualify!
santana laureano·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (36 нед.)
A friend told me that as well but when I went I gave them my pay stubs. I for sure thought they would deny me claiming I made to much and I put my husband down as well and I got approved.
missing217user·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
ooooo might be different states I'm in FL
korasmommy·
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@parkers_mommy, I have medicaid and foodstamps.
Jackselly·
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Since I wasn't married I was still considered single. And I had no job neither so I had to use my mothers Pay stubs bc according to them I was a single mother living with my mom. So it all depends.
korasmommy·
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@xoxo512070, hmm, maybe it's different in Colorado? They told me on the phone I need ID, proof of pregnancy, proof of residency, and proof of my boyfriends income since he is in the household.
Kailynn·
do you have Medicaid or anything?
xoxo512070·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
I do not work or get any income but my fiance does and they never asked for his pay stub
korasmommy·
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@cjw1095, they use the paystub to verify income.
Jessica·
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i think they take you and him and baby into considerstion.... my sisters boyfriend gets 70k a year but well over half goes to child support and.alimony of his ex... so given her situstion.she was able to get services based on take.home, life situation (niece was a premie), and bills and se was awwarded wic support
missing217user·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
I've never heard of them looking at pay stubs... they didn't asked us for anything like that