today is payday! too bad we have bills to pay for and odds & ends we need to buy, so no crib this week :( sucks that I'm nesting and I can't always buy baby things when I want. on the upside, there's still time :) and I thank god that my hunny provides for me and the babies. I can't wait to work again though, Lol being a sahm is great & all but I feel so lazy.
fuck! phone bill!! thanks for the reminder lmao ugh.. & I'm glad my partner doesn't have any other kids!I heard child support sucks @jomommaclark
same here. the 1st $1300 plus his child support $580 then electricity bill $150 phone bill $170. it's so much fun. ......not
right! @santistevanmommie san my hunny is a construction worker so I gotta keep him strong name. &@jomommaclark next week is rent day so we have to save a huge chunk of this check then the rest goes to food and other small things :/ we can never save money! even though he gets paid almost 700 every week its just enough to get things taken care of. once I start working well have a bit more wiggle room
I feel ya we got paid today and it's all spent already.
Right because if we mamas didn't do it nothing would get done kids would be running around dirty and daddy would be hungry lol
I know @phasion I have a 3yo boy Lol its just that I'm having a little girl so I'm excited to have everything ready so I can look at while I wait for my due date. & I do feel super useless@santistevanmommie :( but I know I gotta hold the fort down by cleaning and cooking Lol
I know how you feel about being home all the time. I feel so lazy and useless being home all day
My husband doesn't want a baby shower.....
he said if we can't afford to buy our own stuff and have people come and buy them for us then why have a baby if we can't afford it. I know we can, we'll I can but it's my last one and I want one. I love my babies.... Every baby is a blessing :) should I try to convince my husband or let it go ????
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

I think I might have a baby carrier buying addiction ????
So me and hubby decided on londyn valentina for baby girl.. Mind you we havent told family yet, so my cousin goes oh im having a girl and we are namimg her londin valentina... I was so upset angry and mad i was hooked on that name for baby girl 😭😭😭😭 so now we cant use it so we just decided to name baby girl violet. Dont get me wrong i love the name violet also.. But i was so stuck with valentina... Sorry ladies had to vent anyways baby girl name will be violet now 💜💜
cats and babies
My so and I haven't been able to have cats for years. Last year we moved into our own house. So says we can have a cat now.
yes it does my husband pays more than my ex does and makes less money.