not pregnancy related just need some input on this topic...I have the mirena but I know it's still not 100% preventing pregnancy and I really don't want to get pregnant again I told my boyfriend I want to use condoms but he makes excuses saying he don't have time to buy them. he hates condoms since we stopped using them 3 years ago he says he doesn't feel pleasure she he wears them because the feeling is completely different from when he doesn't use one. he said it's hard to go back to using them when we haven't used them in so long. the last time we used a condom it was horrible he didn't feel much and his facial expression said it all I was the only one enjoying and I ended up telling him to stop because it was pointless if he wasn't enjoying it as well. so Its either use a condom knowing he not gonna feel anything, don't use a condom and pray the 1% that get pregnant while on mirena isn't you or never have sex again. what do you guys think?
then you have to really concerned if he really cares for you? because if he did he would really take into consideration how you feel and what you go thru. being on birth control as well as being pregnant... of girl cut him off and go to Spencer's and get you something to pass the time...
Girl some men are like that, don't wanna use a condom then you get pregnant and they act stupid... Blehh I wish you the best
I feel like he doesn't care if I get pregnant again I don't think he really understands how much I don't want another baby right now. @keirrashenee
I feel it's a compromise your doing your part by being on birth control, but it totally takes 2 to create a life. and if he doesn't want another child as well he should do his part. because if you become pregnant again knowing that you guys don't want another one. he has no one to blame but himself....
I was on the pill as well then I lost them and wasn't taking them cuz I couldn't find them and that's when I got pregnant. we been together four years we stopped using condoms after the first year and every time I wanted to go back to using them he didn't want to he would try but he say it doesn't feel good at all @sexii_diiva
true we had an argument the other night and idk if I wanna make him use them. I don't like using them either but I ain't tryna get pregnant again either. the mirena supposed to prevent pregnancy for five years but there's has been women that still got pregnant so idk. I just know how I felt last time I made him use one it really was horrible I don't wanna feel like that again So idk I'm so stuck @trezelle
girl I was on the pill 7 years.. my husbamd was nutting all up in me lol and I never got pregnant until I stopped taking the pill because we wanted a baby. Honestly after pregnancy I thought I was gonna be too fertile and wanted to use condoms too..but girl I did NOT enjoy it at all. We had been having unprotected sex all that time so I was like forget this lol.. but now I'm bad with remembering to take the pills daily so I just tell him to not ejaculate in me. but idc if I get pregnant right now lol.. its really what you're comfortable with.
I think its spermicidal gel ... its just some gel u rub up in there and it kills the sperm the same stuff they put on condoms its in
yea and those trojan skin ones are really thin and they have the inside ribbed ones for him .... but fyi stay away from the ones called fire and ice it had us both running to the sink for cold water we was definitely feeling the fire lol
Well he isn't the one who have to carry a baby for 9 months. Tell him strap up.
I told him that he ain't tryna hear it tho smh @trezelle
and since u commenting you might as well give your thoughts on this situation Lol. @babygirl10-11
Girl Trojan has some amazing condoms!! There's the barely there one and it's amazing. Good feeling for you and him.
I know but it wouldn't let me tag her new name @babygirl10-11
I hate condoms to ... I'm on the pill and I just prey I don't get pregnant lol ..... maybe use that sperm killer gel to
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idk im stuck. tryna make him do this is pointless and I might as well be celibate until I want more kids smh ughhhhhhhhhhh @keirrashenee