My boyfriend gave me an upfront notice that he would not be helping with planning a baby shower that it was too stressful 😂😂😂 his mom helps with stuff along with me and my mom. He didn't really help with the baby registries either lol I think I prefer it that way because I think he would've went absolutely off the wall with the scanners lol he's there for support and to listen to the progress made with the baby shower and that's fine with me.

my husband planned my 2nd surprise babyshower, he bought everything, he did the games, even helped his mom make the food. I didn't even know, I'm glad he surprised me.. it would of been too stressful for me having to plan my own babyshower.

My fiancé hasn't helped with any of that but I always just let him know what I'm doing because he feels included still without overwhelming him. Guys aren't good with the planning shit. Let them set up the monitors and the cribs and stuff like that ☺️

my boyfriend helped with the registry and kind of with the baby shower but it was mostly my mom and I for the baby shower. if he want to help he should be able too. for the registry I put what I wanted and then he put what he wanted to make it fair and for the baby shower he just went with pretty much everything I liked lol he was helpful. (he was at the baby shower also and loved the way it came out?

never let a "guy" help plan. reason being your pregnant & you're going to be moody & want everything your way. your bf/husband will get a irritated look just have a close friend or family member help.