Quarantined him to the couch to sleep after the horrible weekend full of fighting we had. Having a hard time forgiving him for the way he acted on Sunday after the horrific day I had Saturday (my dad was in a bad accident and had to get 14 stitches in his head). But yet here I lay in bed with my son while he's on the couch and all I wanna do is cry and tell him to come to bed. Being in love in an unperfect relationship has to be the hardest thing ever 😕
Aww, I hate that for u. I hope things get better..it seems like he's the type of guy ur just gna have to show him ur not playing! U know men like to learn the hard way!
@theredheadchic, yes after every fight and he always responds with he's sorry and he can't control his anger but he's gonna do better because he doesn't want to lose us. but then a few days later it's back to the same thing. I guess I get mad because I do 98% of the stuff with our son and then have to pick up the house after everyone including him because he can't seem to. nothing makes me madder than being a grown man's maid. dirty clothes all over my floor, etc drives me insane. I keep telling him I'm not his mother but nothing changes .
I totally understand. Have u told him everything u just said?
@theredheadchic, the problem with that is that he always does the same behavior when he gets mad and normally it's destructive and childish and I have a real problem with it. I honestly think we do love eachother but both of us have been unhappy since baby has come. I feel very unappreciated and taken advantage of constantly and I don't really know how he feels cause we don't really have productive fights. normally it turns into screaming battles. It always seems that he doesn't get how I feel until we've fought alot about it and he claims he's gonna do better then doesn't and then we fight about it again. seems so pointless sometimes
@babymama1015, dang! as for sleeping on the couch, I wouldn't have either! hahaha
Go get ur man! Tell him to come to bed & y'all talk about it. Tell him how u feel!! I'm very stubborn but it's no sense in feeling the way ur feeling. If he's apologetic & u truly think he means it, make up w him! I'm not saying give in & forget but no sense in 2 people thinking & feeling the same way but are being too stubborn to make up. Time is so precious, don't waste it.
Hahaha well he bought our bed. Ugh. Lol!! And I sure as hell ain't sleeping on the couch(; @em_alyssa
@babymama1015, I'm trying but I really wanna give in. I don't even have to tell him. He got his own stuff to sleep cause he knows I'm still upset with him. He tried to kiss me earlier and I kinda was just like nah, I don't want it, flowers don't make it better. Lucky for me, the house we live in and all the furniture was here before he moved in so I'm like get out of my bed. Rude probably haha
I know how you feel... I just wish he would listen to me and go to the couch! Stay strong girl. It'll be okay..
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@theredheadchic, yeah that they do. thanks sweetie 😊