Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Ladies I need advice I am so stressed out and so upset. My mans ex is giving out his number to strange men and telling them to pretend that they know me and they text my man nasty things and say that I know them and that they had sex with me but I don’t know anyone from this area since I just moved here a couple of months ago. I am at loss and so afraid that he’s gonna leave me I keep breaking down..
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
Natanya·
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I don't want this to sound rude or anything, but a baby won't save your relationship or make it better. even if he didn't mean it, he said it for others to hear and I'm sure the ex believes it. if he truly loved you, he would have never cheated or said those horrible things. leave now before you get even more invested.
thencomesbabyj·
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I went through the same thing. Leave it's not healthy for u. It's not worth the stress. U will never trust him. I'm sorry
caracross1·
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My ex used to say that he never had to hit me because words hurt worse than fists. And he was right. Words stick with you longer than a bruise. Words can truly break your heart. I know it's hard but it sounds like you'd be better off without him.
Jennifer Nguyen·
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and you shouldn't be okay with getting cheated on, you're worth more than that.
Jennifer Nguyen·
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@nikaela, I had an ex that cheated on me the whole time I was with him, 2 years. They say they will change but never do. If its the idea of being alone, don't worry about that. you'll have a baby that will love you unconditionally until the right person comes along! which for me, happens to be my current boyfriend and father of my unborn blessing. Be strong. do what's right even if it hurts!
nikaela·
@caracross1, I know ! That's what hurt me the most ! I've always been cheated on so it wasnt necessarily the cheating it was more the things he said that broke my heart never in a million years did I think he'd say that about me and my daughter
caracross1·
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I have to agree with @uhmandaxconrad92. One thing I've learned is cheaters cheat again. And just the fact that he said that stuff would be reason enough to leave him. If he truly cared about you and your child he wouldn't have said what he said.
nikaela·
@firsttimemommy89, @whitbun @uhmandaxconrad92 @ngujen thanks a lot ladies . I think I just have plenty of thinking to do .
Jennifer Nguyen·
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Just because you love him, doesn't mean that's a good enough reason to stay. if you actually believe he's going to change, then stay. Worry about YOUR happiness and your babies. Cheating is not a phase and just because he was scared, doesn't make it right. I hope you feel better and figure things out. best of wishes 💜
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Better to leave now!!!! You can do itt !!!! 👏🙏
Samantha·
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honey I'm so sorry you are going through this I wish I could be more help, my best thing would be see if he changes by his actions not by the things he says his going to do. and if he doesn't change for you and your baby you may just have to bite the bullet and leave. I hope things get better for you sweetie.
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I'm sorry you have to go through this. You do not deserve this. Honestly I know it will be extremely hard to leave him and it will be hard to stay. You have to do what's best for you and your baby. Maybe a little break will help you understand where you both stand.
nikaela·
@firsttimemommy89, I know I should it's just I love him so much . I've given soo much of myself to him . & he wasn't like this at the beginning of the pregnancy so I'm kinda hoping it's just a phase I understand he's probably really scared . So maybe when she's here he'll fall in love with her like I have idk tho . Thanks for your advice tho
Samantha·
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I say leave him. your bf sounds like a real dick, get out of that relationship and make sure you and the baby are all taken care of. sorry you're going through that momma.