Who else gets really bad pain during and after having sex? Use to love having sex with my fiancé now I don't enjoy it…

@bkorth1992, just sucks we use to have sex all the time and now he thinks it's him that's causing me not to want to but it's not. Thinks I'm not attracted to him. Just scared he'll leave or cheat cuz I'm not giving him what he wants

@ambarrett, that's normal. you can swell up while pregnant from the pressure. i ask about the lube because it does make a difference. I'm a Passion Parties consultant so i deal with similar questions pretty often :) we all go through phases. after i had my first son sex was great but i always ended up feeling super sore/raw shortly after. turns out we were using the wrong lube for my body. when we changed lubes it alleviated a lot of the pain i felt

@peanutsmommy1203, I'm trying cuz I'm scared to lose him but idk what else to do. I try and just suck it up to make him happy but it hurts so bad

@bkorth1992, this may be tmi but almost feels like my vagina has gotten tighter

Me too it really sucks. Just try and make him understand!!

@peanutsmommy1203, I feel my fiancé doesnt understand either or doesn't care. I keep saying it hurts and he keeps going. Not until I'm in tears does he stop and act like he cares. I keep worrying he's gonna leave or something cuz he's constantly complaining that I don't show him any affection. I try but either I'm tired or it hurts and we don't have our own place right now. Just upsets me so much and idk what to do anymore

@ambarrett, i would suggest speaking with your ob or changing lubes. when you're pregnant the muscles, oh balance, and hormones all change drastically which can make what normally wouldn't irritate you extremely irritating. are you using water based lubes or silicone based?

Yeah it's not that he's going in dry. Doesn't matter how wet still kills @bkorth1992

are you using lube and having foreplay before penetration?

Me and my boyfriend doesn't understand it. He thinks I'm not attracted to him 😔😔