I just dont understand how someone can be such an ass, and despise someone so much when you barely know her.... Long story short, my fiance is still living with his mom (for financial reasons), but we decided that having him living with me is the best option for us and for our son, so he will be moving in within the next week. I am currently living with my father btw, and he is happy to help us out until we can get into our own place.
Now to the part that is driving me bonkers. My soon to be mother-in-law has never been my fan, at all. She only knows a few tidbits about me, and she fills in any blanks by herself based on who knows what. We havent even been able to announce that we are engaged yet because we didnt want her to flip s*** and kick him out prior to us getting everything in order.
My fiance finally talked to her last night and explained that he is going to be moving in with me, and that he feels that it is best for his family. Him, me, and most importantly our son. She and her boyfriend and being total jerks about it... They are 100% convinced that living with me will end in him not being able to finish the last 2 years he needs for his degree, and they are under the impression that I wont hold to my word that I would go back to work this fall. They dont think I will even try and help my family at all... And they for some unknown reason think that my dads house is not suitable for raising a baby at all( even though up until recently she was pissed we didnt abort the baby when we first found out ). Do I want us to be living with my dad at age 20 and with a kid? No. Do I want to go back to work when my son is only a few months old? Of course not. But sadly thats what has to happen for now, and they seem to think Im the worst thing that has ever happened to him...
**Fyi, we are both about to turn 20, I am 38+1, we have been together for 5 and a half years, and she is the only one that is being this much of an pain about this. Everyone else is being as supportive as they can be, where as she doesnt even know if she wants to keep him on her insurance until we can afford to get our own plan started up. All because she doesnt approve of me, and wishes we wouldve aborted our baby.
Sorry its so long ladies, I just really needed to vent... Its all making me depressed:/