Had a huge fight with my husband last night, I rather not say about what cause I'm actually…

He cheated on you ? You have no reason to be embarrassed you never know some one out there could be having the same issues honey. Here you can talk to us we don't judge. And will help you

Yupp, not here to judge. & you have to do what's best for your baby. So much fighting in a relationship or no trust is not healthy and baby girl deserves better than that. You can't be with someone you hate.

Is it porn? I get mad about porn lol

Idk if he's cheated but I've cought him so many times tlking to girls and maybe it's already gotten that far that he's fucked them I feel like crap, before we were married for four years he made me feel the prettiest and the only girl in the world, as soon as we're married I see someone I never knew, I feel so ugly I don't wanna look at myself in the mirror especially now that I'm pregnant i feel even worse, if I was really what he wanted he wouldn't be liking around and lying to me 😞💔

It's that and it's porn @dottie1288 he makes me feel so unwanted

@scfxo, I don't trust him at all, and yesterday his uncle died and I was trying so hard to make him feel better and everything was going so good, an at night he gets a message an I see he's been tlking to some bitch the whole day about his uncle! Like wtf I'm his wife he should only tlk to me about that not some hoe that always try's to comment cute shit on his photos alone of him an not any he has with me

I'm the same way about the porn. If I'm not good enough that you gotta watch porn then I'm out. And my fiancée doesn't even have any girls in his phone but family and same goes for me about guys. Eliminates temptation but we have a good relationship to where if he talks to a girl. She'll know not to try because he has a ring on his finger! @brez419

@manders13, your so lucky to have that, I really hope things stay good between you two, we were like that when we were dating for 4 years an all of a sudden he changed an I hate it, who can fake being something there not for 4 years! I feel like a fucken idiot

@brez419, I just caught my fiancé talking to another girl. Nothing inappropriate, but they were texting ALL day long, and he was lying to me and hiding it, well now I know his Facebook password, email password and have access to the phone record so I can see who he texts to. I hate being this controlling but if he's going to act shady then I'll treat him like that, men need you to keep them in line! Hopefully things get better !!

I'm kinda going through the same stuff expect my bf actually told the girl that he'd pretty much rather be with her. Why I'm still here idk... I feel like a complete idiot for staying.. Also with the porn its a everyday thing, me an him have had sex once in the last month an half an yet he has the time to hide out in the bathroom an watch porn every morning .. It's a bunch of crap.

@dottie1288, exactly! I thought I was controlling enough but I guess not! I just don't wanna care for him anymore I wanna leave but I feel selfish cause my daughter hasn't had that chance for a family :( ugh I feel stuck

@sarahelizabeth, that's exactly how it is right now idk what to do idk why I'm still here before I would of walked out not looking twice now I feel so weak for my baby

@brez419, I believe in my heart that my fiancé will smarted up, honestly. But if I thought he would never change, I'd leave in a second. You do not need to stay for the baby, put your happiness and health first, and the baby will be just fine and happy and healthy too. Why bring a child into a relationship filled with pain, insecurities, and negativity! Ditch him, and find someone who treats you the way you want to be treated, don't settle for less!

@dottie1288, your completely right, I don't need her to be around this shit I don't need this crap I stress enough for my baby's health for her heart I don't need her to feel my stress on her stupid dad, thank you!

Yikes once someone else has his heart that's it sex is one thing but he's actually getting emotional with the girl he's taking to about his uncle . Also never put anything on your child a child will not make him stay .

@phasion, I know he'll be a good dad to her he's been to all of my appointments and always tlks to her when we're going to sleep, I feel selfish to take her away from that

just always think bout being happy for u. a baby only need a mom who is able to give happiness and love. no pt in being around dad if he is ruining u as Mom. good luck patience and wisdome to do what u gotta do.