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yess i really think tht maybe what it is hes not loving me hw i need him too and i need tk express tht to him , thankyou @yummycake
this to me seems normal man brain probl...he loves you but not the way u want him to....maybe u can tell em...from now on when i complain for the thirtieth time u need to reasure me by stating everything will b ok soon ...ur a great mom...we got this...i do this with hubby and its made it easier on our relationship
yeaaa your right shit does happen and and hopefully he does change im praying for a good outcome @momma_beffers
can't put ingredients in the same bowl hoping to make pizza doe. u have to work with it. like your relationship, you, him and your children have to work together to make a functional family. after him.. it'll be harder to find a decent guy who accepts a woman with two children with two different dads.. no judgement. shit happens. my sister got to that point and it's sad
Well he is the father of the child if he acts like it.. but I think it may be a different feeling if it's his own child being born. like they feel different about it. when the first baby was born it may have just been a baby to him that he learned to love and care for. but when u have his baby that he made then there may be a spark in that moment for him. if the talk does not work, wait it out while trying to improve your realationship and improving communication skills until the baby comes and see if he changes.
well no bt yess he was with me wen i was prrgnant with my first and he is the only dad she knows bt idk idk if thar counts @momma_beffers
your welcome. Good luck. sorry you are having issues. but if u feel u have done everything u can after the talk.. u know where he stands. is this 2nd baby with him?
thanks for telling me this bc i was honestly going to just walk away @momma_beffers
That's good . try not to go to bed angry . my bf says the next morning "I don't want to fight anymore ok? I love you" then we fight over same thing and it's a cycle. don't give up until issue is resolved and you and him know and understand how each other feel completely
your right so ill do it tmr when im not so angry @momma_beffers
I'm serious. u have to think clearly and not attack him in any way
you are right i will try one more time ,like this is my last time @momma_beffers
try it again and make sure you aren't doing any wrong. don't blame him. don't raise your voice one decimal over your calm voice. if he does it, correct him on his tone
hes hurting me , ive had multiple face to faces with him , dont nothin work i honestly just want to throw in the towel @momma_beffers
if he would have done the same thing to me, even though I can't feel his hurt at the time, he was going to try to hurt me. don't intentionally hurt someone.
this is over text.. don't fight fire with fire. me and my bf were fighting he threatened to do the same thing with me later on. I didn't even understand why he was mad so I made him talk to me and in a calm voice. you need to have him talk to you face to face. I hate electronics. it's ruining us. and we think it's acceptable to solve our issues like this. I do it all the time. I really have a hard time communicating. problems need fixed right away and you need to make it happen
im thinking bout doing just that @05twonine15
@momma_beffers, this is all the time i try an i try an i tell him what the problem is and he never wants to listen
Me and my bf just had a fight.. you have to talk in person.. then you BOTH HAVE to know what a calm voice sounds like and you BOTH HAVE to use it and explain yourselves and listen and try to understand the other person
he never does he turns it around and plays victim @05twonine15
doesn't look like he even try to listen to you to see how you feel at all @kayybae
yea he dosent care bout anyones feelings but his own @05twonine15
but tell him in a nice matter of fact way...not angry or complaining..so he is more open to trying