I need advice. It's like my husband treats me like I'm his personal babysitter/maid and just here to have sex with. I feel like I'm a guest in HIS house not his wife in OUR home. He works and I don't. He wants me to get a job ASAP and our baby is just 8 1/2 weeks. I understand and I want to help, but he keeps telling people that I don't want to work. It seems to me that he's always trying to avoid spending time with me and the kids. He claims we never have money to go do anything, but he always hangs out with his friend every weekend. His friend bribes him by paying for his gas. He was caught recently, texting inappropriately to another woman. I'll admit I do nag him and I'm working on that. My car got repoed because he wasn't paying for it, but he was driving it to and from work. He doesn't help me with the baby hardly at all. He complained just yesterday saying "I have to feed her this whole bottle?" while I was cooking dinner. He tells me that he's going fishing Friday (today) and won't be home until 1 or 2 am. I'm so tired of being alone all the time. I don't know what to do to make him see I need "me" time and "us" time...I feel like I'm slowly falling into depression. This isn't healthy for anyone. Especially after having a baby... What do y'all suggest I do?
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@babylylasmommy, @jamies @corkyt07 I've told him how I feel about it. He says he's not good with babies and since he works all week he deserves one night out with his friend. The last time I got to go out without my kids or my husband was almost a year ago. I ask him to rinse his dishes or put dirty clothes in the dirty clothes basket, then I'm nagging or bitching at him. I just don't know if he's capable of growing up anymore.
im sorry your going threw it I would start to worry about my self as much as possible. he is going to do what ever he wants you can't control men. if they want to do it you can't setup then they will sneak around so when her wants to go out just say I don't care. try to focus in your self, work out as and get heathly till you can work again. things will turn around when you are working again. get a job when he is home so he has to watch the baby while you are at work he will learn what you.. you never know when you get on your Own two feet you won't need or want him because of how he treated you when you were down..you should work out like crazy and make him feel bad for texting this other women lol just my opinion :)
tell him how you feel! He needs to respect you and how you feel. I don't think your nagging is anything compared to what you explained he did. If my bf were to tell me he's "fishing" until 1 or 2am I would have a huge problem with that and my mind would wander fast! I don't think its healthy how he is treating you and I'm sorry you have yo deal with that. 😕 keep me posted
idk what to say but I'm sorry n you don't know me but I'm here to talk to
unfortunately it sounds like you may be right about him growing up... I don't know you or your situation at all but he sounds like a Shithead to me. I think the one girl was right, you should focus on you and the baby and just make him feel stupid for what he missed out on