Vent! My SO has the day off (finally) he works 12 days and only get one day off. But today I slept in for the first time since my son has been born(4 months ago) but he got mad at me cause I was outside talking to one of my friends and he got mad cause he's like fine you want me to take care of Michael ( our son ) all day!! And I said no I'm coming in right now and he's like watch when I give him to you. He's gonna cry and your gonna get mad ... I'm not the one that gets mad, it bus me because he think I'm the only one that can take care of our son. He thinks it my job all the time. I'm with the baby 12 days outta a week so two weeks straight. This mama has a lot going on. I'm looking for a new house for my dad me and my son and my SO. My mom just passed away a few months ago in March of this year.. I'm looking around for a house. And I'm tired. Sometimes I need a break to myself but he doesn't understand why I need a break. He thinks just cause he works he should be the one that rest. Like wtf a$$...
I've talk to him about this a hundred times. But he doesn't change he says I have to change and then when I talk to he's friend he's friend say I should give him a few hours to rest after he gets of work cause he dose so much at work that he needs to rest before he takes the baby. By the time he's done "resting" the baby is a sleep. So he doesn't have to do anything.. And sometime when he get off work and the baby isn't a sleep when he gets off he used to get mad. Now he doesn't because my dad stopped him from doing that...
My SO is 21 almost 22 and I'm 23 just turned 23 in April. My son is 4 months old and I had him January.
We love each other so much. But we have our differences. Everyone need to get used to the life of parents!
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Sorry it's long vent over!
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
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Girl I know how you feel! I'm in the same boat.. I'm a SAHM, and my bf thinks I should do everything.. I love venting too lol