At a complete loss my bf says he wants to be part of our lives but I think I just found some drugs…
At a complete loss my bf says he wants to be part of our lives but I think I just found some drugs but not sure. He's a recovering drug addict but I told him if he uses that's the end of us cause I won't put my daughter into that kind of world. Not sure how I should confront him about it and if I do I don't want to loose him. Ugh so not sure what to do
Jameka Martins·
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I say give him a chance, tell him again if you use drugs I don't want you in my daughters life. & I say if you suspect something going on confront him about it. But everybody deserves a chance.
Ashley·
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This will be his 4th chance. We already have to keep hidden pretty much because of the choices he has made. There's a good chance that if certain people find him he is either going to jail or will be killed im at a complete loss on what to do Thanks @14jmartins I do agree that everyone needs a chance but when should I quit giving in?
Sunah·
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There should be no risks taken when it comes to your child. If you can sacrifice your body/lifestyle etc to grow a baby, he can give up DRUGS.
Chances are given after change is made. Your daughter first . stay strong <3
Ashley·
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Thank you @honan1
Alexandria·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I agree... you have to think about your unborn baby like you already said your already in hiding and if they find him he can go to jail or end up dead and you don't want someone to busy in your house looking for him and end up hurting you and your baby . So just really think about it
Sunah·
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Of course! you're a beautiful girl, there's always better :D
Ashley·
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Thank you both @honan1 and @hopefaithnlove
Alexandria·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
no problem mama ;)
Lindsey Myers·
I deal with this everyday of my life I'm in the same situation with my bf
GinaG·
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Never put yourself and esp your kids in that position where your life is in danger, if someone has the desire to kill another human then don't think just because u didn't do it they won't hurt u too! That's a big risk you're taking already because u said u already gave several chances. I think you should tell him again and maybe if you have some place you can go for a week or two so he knows you are serious but if he is between the jail and the cemetery even if he isn't doing drugs it sounds like a bit of a toxic situation that you really need to evaluate and decide is it worth risking the safety of u and your child because you love him?
Ashley·
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Thanks @gonag918 I'm trying to get my own place hopefully I will know by tomorrow and that will solve a lot of things