bbyenolan22
Amanda
Getting frustrated by hubby's family 😡 We got engaged last Christmas and we're planning our wedding to be late September this year 2015. Well a month into planning we found out I was pregnant and due late September lol. I don't want to be uncomfortable and full of baby at my wedding lol [just a personal choice I've seen some absolutely beautiful pregnant brides] we thought about moving the date to sooner but we didn't think it would be enough time to plan and save the money we need, so we decided to push it back to May of 2016. So we still have time to plan and we can encorporate our daughter. My family was understanding of the date change. But every time our wedding is brought up at his place I gotta hear snooty remarks about how it's wrong to not have it before the baby. It bugs me :( I don't love my daughter any less because we're not married yet. And hubby and I have a lot we want for our wedding that we can't do if we make it sooner. I don't want to feel like my wedding is rushed
Am I wrong for wanting to wait?
Am I wrong for wanting to wait?
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No you should totally wait! We got pregnant a couple months after our wedding and we are still recovering from the cost of it! So tiring too!
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No you should totally wait! We got pregnant a couple months after our wedding and we are still recovering from the cost of it! So tiring too!
your life, your business! don't let anyone make you feel bad!
No ignore them!! My sister and her fiancé were together 8 years. Had my nephew 5 years ago and just got married last jan.
absolutely not! I had the same thing pretty much happened except I planned to marry him after the baby came anyways because I didn't want to be pregnant during. but I heard all kinds of crap about not being married before the baby came. I just told them I didn't care. I'm waiting so I can tell my son that I married his daddy because I loved him, not because he came along. And I stuck by it! Ignore them and do your own thing :)
Thank you! I'm trying to ignore them all.
Definitely not! When I had my son we had been engaged for 1 1/2 years but we didnt push our date up just because we were pregnant. It is definitely an old school way of thinking. Believe everyones first question with us was are you getting married. Yeah on the date we originally picked! Which actually moved back because my brother wont be home in time but do your thing girl! Dont feel bad about anything or do anything just because someone doesnt agree with it! You will have a beautiful day and you will get to have pictures of your beautiful baby in them for forever! I cant wait to incorporate my little boy in mine!
No not at all. My fiancé and I were supposed to do our wedding in June but my family couldn't make it for the wedding then come back 2 mos later for the delivery so we moved it to next yr as well. Although his family is ignorant and thinks he picked me up off the corner and have no family I told them too bad they have to wait.
Absolutely not it's your wedding and you and your fiance deserve to have it the way you want:)