
hey there ladies, I've been seeing this alot when I search New mommy things to know or stuff like that... what is this for? why do "padsicles"? like is my vajaayjaay gonna burn or something after I give birth or whats gonna happen it's not gonna be like normal menstruation I know, but is this necessary will there be pain down there after giving birth??
srry for my dumb questions lol... first time mom and no one mentions anything about whats gonna happen to me or what should I be ready for after my baby and I wanna be ready for anything!😁😱
tia :)
yes depending on if or how you tear it might sting a little due to stitches ... mine stung a little but not enough to wear I need to put ice down there although I still did cuz I was sore a little and it felt wonderful
@bbyulloa, yes you'll be sore. I think mine was way worse than normal cause a have like 3 different type of tears down there & I was swollen so bad. but they gave me like a numbing spray for down there & witch hazel pads for the back of the pads for hemorrhoids. I'm almost 2 weeks postpartum & I still hurt every once in a while.
@parkers_mommy omg so it does like burn or hurt a while after giving birth?
they will give you ice packs to put down there. my hospital have me baby diapers with ice in it & I put it in my pants to numb that area but I tore so bad & bled out.
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I read about this too! I have like 10 in the freezer just in case. The hospital gives you some too