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shae

I wonder if she feels the same way I do.. I know this isn't the place to say how I feel about stuff…

I wonder if she feels the same way I do.. I know this isn't the place to say how I feel about stuff like this.. but I can't really say this on Facebook either.. my boyfriend is on there and would see it. and see that my feelings for him are gone and for someone else.. no judgement please but it happens to be for another woman... I don't know if that just means I have problems or if I'm just barely figuring out Why I am the way I am... I am almost 11 weeks with his baby. and I just don't want to do it with him anymore.. he lets his friends gang up on me. me and him were arguing today and all of our roommates were laughing on his behalf and made me feel like shit. last night he told me he was better at everything then I am. just because of a stupid spelling test he had me take and we both got the same thing on it. and he said it was impossible cause he saw me spell all of them wrong. and that he should know cause he knows how to spell better then I do.. but these feelings for her have been going on for weeks now.. but I can't tell if she feels the same way or not..

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mrsprice20

mrsprice20

@shaebee3, just ask her how she feels and tell her how u feel and if u don't think it will with with ur child's father let him go u shouldn't feel anyway but happy so do what's best for you pray on it , but always remember its ur decision in the end of whatever u choose

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mrsprice20

mrsprice20

work

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korasmommy

korasmommy

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Even if you don't feel happy with him, and she doesn't accept you, you should end your unhappy relationship with your boyfriend. You shouldn't feel you need a backup relationship to fall back on. There are a lot of happily single mothers.

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s-moore21

shae

thank you. I would but she also has a girlfriend. but she said she was feeling so alone with her and her other friends... there is somewhat of a problem tho.. I'm 20 and she is 16.. I already know it's not gonna work with my babies dad. I just need to figure shit out before I can leave.. I need to apply for an apartment and see if my bishop or someone will help me out. @mrsprice20 . I'm hoping that it'll be soon tho.

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missing117user

missing117user

Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (27 нед.)

Only way to find out is to ask her and if you're not happy it's best for you to leave bc if he disrespect you in front of them no telling what he will do @shaebee3

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mrsprice20

mrsprice20

@shaebee3, age ain't nothing bit a number lol jk jk, but yes please do that so you and ur little one will be safe, and if ur not gone to tell her u need to do something with those feelings don't carry them around in ur mind either let them out or let them go because if u don't its going to replay and replay in it head a thousand times them ur going to get a headache trying to figure out how to or what to do

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mrsprice20

mrsprice20

but

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missing58user

missing58user

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Yeah. I agree with them ^ you definitely need to leave baby daddy. If you're not happy now, you're not gonna be happy later. Do you want him to treat the baby like that too, or you like that in front of your child? It's best to go. And then see where it goes with the girl from there. It's always no if you don't ask :) good luck.

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s-moore21

shae

thank you guys. for being so supportive. I really appreciate it. I will most likely end up asking her but I don't want it to ruin our friendship if I do.. @mrsprice20 . it's nothing but a number to us but to the states and stuff... ugh. @babydavis915 that's very true. I definitely don't want that. I'm just sick of it. I don't want my baby around that shit. @marbeffff I know I've been trying to figure out ways that I can leave without having to leave town to go live with my mom. I don't want to do that again. it sucked.

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bstill60

Bethany

I can fall in love with three different guys in one day. I would wait it out until you have the baby. I would even try to work it out with the baby daddy for the baby. that's what I say i would do... easier said than done

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mommytoprinceaiden092915

Jasmine Atencio

I would wait it out, it cod honestly just be the pregnancy hormones getting to you, you should talk with him and let him know that your not happy the way he's treating you

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s-moore21

shae

I have. he doesnt care. he dismiss's it right after we've talked about it then doesn't even remember talking about it. @jasmine09212015 he doesn't care about my feelings whatsoever. this is how it's been every time we have dated. I'm just stupid enough to come back to him ..

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