Anyone else not contacting the baby's daddy til your in labor? I find it so hard because he should be experiencing pregnancy with me and should be my support system... But he stresses me out so much and is focusing on dating and not on me and the baby...
Yeah there is always time to improve those relationships with them , as long as they are supportive of you
@alainalovesmommy, not really, I have talked to his mom like twice in person, seen her more than twice. and talked to her a little over facebook. Ive talked to his grandma, grandpa, and aunt like once.. and only about the baby... Im hoping since I still have about 3 months to go I can get close to his mom atleast... :/
Well my mother is the only one going to be in the room which wasn't the plan at first , I can't have him in the room because he could cause complications because how high my pulse goes up . so dealing with things have been kinda hard knowing at the end of this we will have to be in court one day . but are you close with his family ?
@alainalovesmommy, yeah i was thinking about telling him after, but his family wants to be around for the baby and they all live kinda far. So i figured i tell him when Im in labor and they get there once baby is born, well hopefully.. i dont wanna be in labor by myself, how are you dealing with that? my mom has 2 young kids, so she cant be there and none of my "friends" have really been around.
I'm telling him after I've had her , I want my time with my daughter since he hasn't been around . I haven't even told him the hospital yet either because he stresses me out and the last thing I want in my head is that he's waiting outside the room
@soon2bwifey, yeah he tells me shit whenever I text the girl he is talking to, yet she texted me first to begin with and she even texted me happy mothers day. so idk why he tells me shit, i just tell her the truth...
@alainalovesmommy, yeah they already said it doesnt matter what he does that they still wanna be around for the baby.