I have decided to become celibate. After my baby gets here in planning on getting a celibacy ring..…

lol um... question do u have a boyfriend? i just dnt know any guy who would stick by a womans side doing that. i mean they are out there but not many lol

^^^😐I was thinking the same........buh good luck to yu sweetie..I hope it all goes well for yu

@missj_stephens, and @amg2469 no I don't have a boyfriend. I'm not really interested in having one either lol. I'm good, just my baby and I.

@trezelle, oh ok well then you got it all figured out hunn ...you're doin wat yu feel is best...good luck on it all sweetie !!!

@amg2469, I've figured it out, was just looking to see if any other moms were on the same path.

@trezelle, i highly doubt it....most mommies on here have a hubby or a really loving caring dedicated boyfriend they plan on being with until the end of time and marrying !!! Unless they are single moms I guess !!!

good for you girl :)

I got pregnant during my celibacy. I basically let my guard down and was lonely, got excited, and ended up here. It's a struggle when you keep someone you think you love, but going through this has shown me much about myself and put my priorities back in place. My celibacy is back in place and I don't see myself breaking it again until I'm married. God is the only way to stick to a commitment such as this because your flesh is a mess. It's completely possible but you have today committed and fill your life with those on the same path.

stay committed*

And of course the "majority" won't agree with your decision. Just look at the world we live in. Even my pastor's wife told me good luck finding a man to make that commitment with me.

@queeneden, I was on the path of becoming celibate when I met my child's father.. Problem is I thought he was "the one"... Idk why. Guess I was tired of being alone. A lot of people keep saying I cannot keep to my quest but I will. I'm not trying to settle down until I get me together and still after all is said and done I'm going to stay celibate until marriage. The kind of man I want I'm not ready for yet. So I'm working on me while allowing God to mold me into the woman, mother and human being he desires me to be. I'm glad we're on the same journey. We can help each other!